my sis has a bf and i dont like him one bit cuaes he cons girls in to going out with him and it works cuaes my bff fel for it too and every time she has dated a guy i know weather or not he is good or bad if he is bad she wont liesnt to me and every time i tell things like this she never belives me and i have been rigth every time and i just try to look out for ever if she is older but still she wont break up with him and she is madly in love with him but hes not so what can i do i have tryed every thing i know and it wount work plz help me i dont want my sis getting hurt
2007-02-28 11:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by bluelapo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're going to have to let her make her own mistakes, otherwise you'll end up always being the bearer of bad news!!!
2007-02-28 11:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, as much as you'd want to, you can't stop your sister from likeing somone. No matter how hard you try, because people are really difficult. I'm sorry to say this, but the only thing you can really do, is catch your sister when she falls. You know he's going to hurt her, so just be there when it does happen. Your sister will appreiciate it a lot, and you and your sister's relationship will get tighter also.
2007-02-28 11:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
come on now its her life and let her do her
bag back a lil and let her do her thang in time she a c whats up i mean its her boifriend not urs so why u worried about it o yeal and remember love is pain sometime u laught and some time u cry but its up to that couple 2 c if they wanna continue dating or whateva
im sure if it was u ur sister wouldnt b able to tell u any different with ur man.........now could she
2007-02-28 11:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister will choose her own way regardless of your feelings. The best way to handle it is to tell her once then YOU let go of it. Let her make her own mistakes in life, you do. We all get to make our own mistakes and learn from them. Be there for her WITHOUT saying "I told you so," when she needs you... That is what YOU would want if you were in her place. Love is blind, and life is much clearer from the outside looking in sometimes.
2007-02-28 11:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Seeking Serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do; if she doesn't want to believe it, she won't, period. You can do something sneaky and skanky like sleep with him (as someone suggested) but then she's going to say YOU'RE the bad person, not him. She will really defend him then, and she'll hate you. All you can do is stick by her, support her, and be there for her when he does something dirty to her.
And do NOT ever say "I told you so".
2007-02-28 11:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by pookieb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cannot tell your sister what to do. once you have offered your opinion there is nothing else you can do without risking your relationship with your sister. you should be supportive of her choices whether you agree with them or not.
2007-02-28 11:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, you sound extremely jealous lol just back off, its her problem, she needs to learn the hard way. Some people are just like they, they wont listen to reason and need to be shown.
2007-02-28 11:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Reggie R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you can repeat this to her. You see, in history, people like Stalin and Hitler would have propaganda repeating its message over and over again.
2007-02-28 11:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by za z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be there for her
try and try
in the end she will get hurt
always be ther
for her
ALWAYs
shes in denial right now
but when she wont be
shell need u
2007-02-28 11:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by breanna 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk about it with her and him and say your really concerned about her. if she doesn't lsten, start getting more serious about, and keep an eye on them, you don't want them getting serious on you.
2007-02-28 11:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kitty Cat Gruff 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋