do i have chance at dating her?

Question

i have known her a long time. i have liked since day one. since day one we have talked alot and hanged out alot. one day she asked me. if i like her. i said yes. she told me, she only sees me as a friend. we kept talking and hanging out as we always did. then a couple months later she stoped talking to me for a while.at this time she was also going through a break up from a long relationship. she wrote me a letter saying the way you are makes me uncomfortable sometimes. during this time once in a while i called her to keep in touch but she didnt answer. then one day she finaly did and since then we have gotten closer. im still the same person and treat her the same way i always did. im thinking by going in a couple of dates she might start seeing me as man and not only as a friend. do you think i have a chance at dating her?

Answer 1

Yeah!I dnt see why you wouldnt.You were there when she was going through her bad patch as a good friend and now you are helping her pick up the pieces of her life that left of her break up

Answer 2

If she was still ignoring you I'd say stop-there's no chance... but because she has recently started answering and some time has passed since the ending of her relationship then maybe there is time to grow into more than friends.

Many relationships have grown into something more when the individual takes time & shows their real personality. If you guys do end up going on dates, take her fun places, no where serious! HAVE FUN! Make her laugh and don't make her feel uncomfortable...in the end, all a girl wants is a great who who she can trust and one that makes her laugh.

Answer 3

I believe so, very much. Why are You unsure of it? Probably She did not mean exactly uncomfortable, but uneasy... Have You ever thought what act or attitude made her feel so? You should ask her directly and if it is something too deep into You, then simply say a true good-bye... If Not, Be Glad and change or avoid such comments or situations... It could have been something You just did or said trying to impress her, but wasn't too much of You either! ;-)

Answer 4

Ok thisis deep, but I feel like this, I don't know your experience with girls, but I know these are the type of girls who break a guys heart, and leave him with a complex outlook of women. Leading them to believe all women are this cold hearted. Well they arent' just like there are jerk type of guys, their arejerktype of girls. They like to get guys to fall in love just to see if they can, they have to say intimate things like, "I can trust you' or "Your not like most guys " and "I can tell you anything". But trust me its just seduction, even as a teenager girls can seduce men, without sex. Its easy because men don't think like women, and women don't think like men. A pretty girl, can start a friendship with a guy, even if she's out of his league. But don't fret, because she think she owns you, that's why she discards you the way she does. She "knows' she hasu and your not going no where. But you need,to turn the tables on her or forget her forever. Don't go back to her, because all she'll do is try and play her love em and leave em game. Heartbreaking just to see how wanted she is by the opposite sex. Talk to other girls, maybe step up your game a little and if you have some odd hobbie( no offense), it might be time to give it up and have some fun. Trust me 3 things that make a guy irresitable to women, *Having a girlfriend and being in a serious relationship.
*Confidence and being busy with stuff, and being very hard to get or tie down,
*Being themseleves even if its a egotistical jerk or a sensitive guy, bieng you helps others know you,

I don't think she likes you, but there r plenty of fish in the sea don't let her foolu into thinking u can't get better, cause u can, if u approach everthing in a confident, and normal way.

Answer 5

You have a chance of dating her. But don't rush into the relationship. Don't scare her. Sure, take her out on dates, but let her make the first move, that way, she won't feel uncomfortable, and you won't scare her. Treat her like a lady, and she'll see you like a man [gentleman]. What ever you do, just don't rush into anything, but i'm sure you have a chance.

Answer 6

AHHHHHHH stop! First of all, you obviously don't think you're worthy of her. If you really believe that you will NEVER be able to date her. Picture yourself with her, and her having the time of her life, do this often and before long you'll start believing that she would be lucky to have you as a bf. No.2 I would REALLY recommend seeing other girls, as this will show her that you don't -NEED- her, if you're going to be clingy and and seeking approval with this woman, kiss your chances with her goodbye. You can totally win her over, but you need to do a 180 real quick otherwise probably not.

Answer 7

Yes, I do think you have a chance. She had a boyfriend so of course she is going to say you and her will only be friends..
What is wrong with starting as friends? Seems like a good way to start a romance.

Answer 8

she seems like she has a hard time to make a decision. you can never tell with girls if you have a chance or not (i'm a girl).....if you want her, go for her and prove to her that you are a great guy. if she doesn't want to be more than friends, leave it be and try again in a few months. don't bug her cuz that will make her feel like she can't talk to you at all anymore and won't want anything to do with you.....follow your heart is all i can really say

Answer 9

yes n no yes bcuz u might change her heart n she might wanna give it 2u no bcuz she like that u 2 r friends n friends means alot 2her n she may not want 2 chance the way things r but if u want then take a chance u never know how things goes

Answer 10

hi bruno,
i donot know ur ages. but it seems both of u are immature. anyway write a letter expressing what exactly u want. if she responds its ok. otherwise better forgive and forget her. try a new venture. all the best. enjoy the life!