Hey guys. Well im the popular funny guy at school that everyone likes. But u would think i get alot of girls. the truth is i dont... i always make people laugh 24/4 and people say im never serious... i realy think its a bad thing when i want a g/f right now i wanan setttle down and find a nice girlfriend. But ive just been known to make everyone laugh. they say im cute and good looking but im 2 much of a friend and not a boyfriend cause of my humor. What should i do... can u please give me some tips on how i can change this around so girls can see me as the b.f not the friend.
2007-02-28 11:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't change a bit........just be yourself and be patient.......
2007-02-28 11:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to not always be the funny guy! Make sense once in awhile so that others can see that you do & can have a serious side. Your probably pretty intelligent too. Most witty people are, let some of that show too. Not enough to be snobbish about your brains; just enough to let them know that you have some! limit the number of times you can make others laugh, hard; I know but you can do it. Sometimes the funny guy gets to be a bit hard to take, especially when you can't get him to give you a straight answer to anything! Cool it!
2007-02-28 19:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by geegee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about. I have people like that in my school. Okay, well, most people would tell you not to be so funny, so then people would take you more seriously. Don't stop being funny. Because that's what everybody likes about you. The things that girls love about guys is their personality, which is what the girls seem to love about you. Now, you need to just be sweet. Bring her flowers. Tell her she looks great. Just don't flirt with the other girls, and she'll realize that you're serious about her. Don't change yourself, because that's what everyone loves about you.
2007-02-28 19:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, i wouldnt change to get a g/f, but your funny self and if the girls see you as a friend thats there tuff luck you are who you are. Never change there are heaps of girls who love guys who are funny. As long as you are serious when you need to be, such as when somone is upset or somthing like that. Just be funny its good that you see the posative of life. Its hard to find people like you around.
Dont worry you will find someone who compliments your personality. Smile, laugh and live life to the full. Life is about being happy. :) All the best. xoxox
2007-02-28 19:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got the best position someone could have; You are in a position that lets you be known by everybody and still, have a serious coversation if you want to; but to achieve the girl you want you gotta use that in your favor:
you should start talking to her as if you are joking, say something like "I wanna take you out"; but make it sound like a joke, that way she will laugh and afterwards you gonna say something like "I'm serious, i ain't joking". If she say yes you got her & if she say no...
Well guess what, you act stupid again and respond to that with something like "Girl please, i don't like you that much"... She ain't gonna feel bad cause you are (No Offense) a clown and you gonna keep your "MANHOOD" intact...
2007-02-28 19:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Angelo C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah im with the girl above me. use your ability to actually laugh your way to a girls heart but if you dont want to do that then be a little more mature around some girls but not all. maybe this might help!!!! :)
2007-02-28 19:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kylah O'Neal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't you dare change yourself ... don't you dare!
just because the one for you has not arrived does not mean that you are not the right one for someone
and anyway, you have plenty of time to be serious once you get out into the real working world ... so for now, be yourself ... be hilarious! be sweet! be the good, caring friend!
2007-02-28 19:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well im a very outspoken girl i say anything without even saying so i sometimes seem like a *****!But i aint changing myself for no one!
p.s i had a couple of bf
2007-02-28 19:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by $**Cutie pie**$ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a girl ur not friends with and use ur humor as a pick up line...
2007-02-28 19:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by ipfreely91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must learn the art of flirting, it shouldn't be too hard since your good at making jokes, and be serious sometimes.
2007-02-28 19:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by J C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a girl you like and be serious around her
2007-02-28 19:22:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋