I lied to my boyfriend about alot of things he thinks the only way to stop me is to hit me, is he right?

Answer 1

good grief no...... no guy should hit a girl for any reason. he should walk away and just leave you but never hit.

Answer 2

No he's not right, and neither are you. This relationship sounds like it's reached it's end, it's not right for anyone to put their hands on you, if he cared about you he would not hit you no matter what he may say. You shouldn't feel like you have to lie to your boyfriend to begin with. The best thing is to end the relationship, and you should tell someone you trust about the abuse so they can help you.

Answer 3

i hope he hits u enough 2 knock some comment since in2 ur brain dont u know 1 u shouldnt lie 2 any1 even if have love 4 them 2 no hes not rite 2 hittin u he a lill ***** bcuz a really man wont hit a women not matter how much she has lied 2 him a really man respects ur face n ur body u need 2 leave him n another thing if u feel that u cant leave him bcuz u cant do any better thats what he wants u think men like him pary on women with low selfeem n u have low selfeem rem no what u do its not ur bad its his even if he says hes sorry all the time hes not hell do it again n call the cops on him so he cant come near u a nother think men in jail kill guys like y they want dirty bags like him near the women on the outside

Answer 4

There is no reason on this plane for a man to git a girl (or vice versa) Even though what you did was wrong you shouldnt get hit. You deserve better then that. I was in an abusive relationship also. I thought there wasnt anything better out there for me that I deserved it. Now I am with a wonderful man that treats me wonderfully. There is someone out there better for you. Pronise. Also, when you find him . DONT LIE AGAIN.
Good luck.

Answer 5

yes, he is wrong!, and "2 wrongs dont make one right!"

he shouldnt hit you, and maybe no one shud have put Salt On the wounds in the first place...hes just upset, Talk to him when hes in a good mood, and talk about mistakes and breakin up. (it probly saddens both of you when you fight and you prolly dont want mtters to get worse. If you really love him or even liked him as a friend, you will leave him right away in peace and before he becomes a worse abuser(or even worse :(...) if he doesnt wanna break up call the police!

he is hurt. and may do anything. he expresses himself..negativly.
he was nice...now hes sad and bitter.
end the relationship before salt is seriously put on your wounds
in the future...lie less!
and stay away from potential people who have anger management ISSUES!

you can find someone who has a closer personality and control like you.
best of luck!

Answer 6

a man should never ever ever ever hit a woman for any reason. lying is not a good thing, but abuse is NOT the answer. sounds like its not a very healthy relationship. get out while you can. abusive men only get worse. even if you stop lying he will find another reason to hit you. LEAVE HIM. i left my ex-husband the day he tried to kill me after a long abusive relationship.

Answer 7

Obviously not. You're probably lying about that, too.

Additional: People who say that there is never a reason for a man to hit a woman are sexist morons. What if she was attacking him? What if she is causing destruction? What if she has a knife and is going to stab herself? I suppose those aren't any reasons to hit her, huh?

And what if she is telling lies to people to try to cause him harm, to try to get them to hurt him?

Quit trying to pretend that just because she's female that she isn't dangerous or that she is sweet and innocent and helpless.

Answer 8

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! He has no business EVER to hit you. You should never lie or have to lie due to being in a relationship where you are threatened. Get out and find someone who is kind to you whom you can talk to without lying.

Answer 9

I suggest the two of you take a deep breath, look in each others eyes, and then run as fast as you can in opposite directions.

The two of you sound like you have a lot of issues that need to be resolved or else just flushed, like your relationship.

First, no one deserves to be hit.
Second, if you have to lie to the person you love, well, you can't really love them.

Answer 10

You know he's wrong! Why do you feel the need to lie so much though? Either way, there is no excuse at all for him to be hitting you.

Answer 11

no it's not right at all! you should really break up with him or at least talk to him about it. he has no right to hit you even if you lie to him. tell him you're sorry or something and that if he wants ya'll to stay together, he has to stop hitting you and you'll try to not lie. well hopefully you wont lie and ya'll can stay together and he wont hit you anymore =] sorry he hits you; he's a jerk for hitting you. good luck!