There's a girl I like at work that may have liked me before, and may still but i'm not sure because she is a seeing a guy. Anyway we usually get along very well and laugh and she is around me alot, and she's laughs at alot of things I do or say. Yesterday however I guess I didn't pay much attention to her, so towards the end of the day she made a minor negative comment about me to someone else at work, then she didn't even look in my direction for the rest of the day. As a result I paid her absolutely no attention back. She just became very quiet and kept to herself the rest of the day. She seemed a little down. Now today I guess I was more attentive to her and she was back to her normal self, and when she became excited by something that happened at work, she started touching my arms and got really close to me. There is also something about the way she looked at me today when we were alone that makes me think she does. Please help
2007-02-28 11:01:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend tells me the same way...so this is what I will tell you...just ask her...ask her out...tell her you got this thing for her in a good way and that you would enjoy her company outside of work....
Trust me....
Guys always tell me that I'm hard to read...
2007-02-28 11:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u should get involved with her because you two work together....think what would happen after wards if you guys did go together and then broke up and what would she say about you to others at work? she just likes your attention as a lot of women like other men's attention...just keep on flirting nothing more i guess
2007-02-28 19:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that all she wants is a male's attention. That is pretty immature to speak negatively of you just because you didn't do that.
Work relationships hardly work..but hey..How old are you?
2007-02-28 19:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bah she likes you. she made a mean comment because she was jealous you didn't pay any attention to her. as in a dog would rip up the sofa because you didn't pet it or something. but i'd be careful with this one. don't go in too deep because if you end up breaking up with her, she might hunt you down and kill you in your sleep O.o
2007-02-28 19:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by kimcml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, tell her you like her. Say it now, before you run out of time, because waiting too long is the worst thing to do.
2007-02-28 19:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out is just to confront her
ive tried finding out different ways
and guessing
it NEVER works
she'll understand why you asked if shes a good friend
its the only way
hope it helps
2007-02-28 19:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by breanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds extremely moody and demanding. I suggest keeping clear of her.
2007-02-28 19:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk and tell her how you feel. The rest will come smoothly.
2007-02-28 19:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick: The Existentialist Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing games!!! Do you like her? If yes, then tell her dang it!!! If not, stop teasing with her.
2007-02-28 19:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋