K i have this problem i need some help??

Question

i have a boyfriend we have been going out for almost 3 weeks and well he doesnt seem that interested in the relationship i feel like he is scared to make a move like i am really seriuos or sumthin when i want to move on in are relationship... he really likes me and i am not worried abotu that ??help

Answer 1

u make the first move..he is shy and scared

Answer 2

Hey you have only been the relationship for 3 weeks. That's hardly a month. I understand that people like to have sex and stuff right off the bat but if you're talking about getting more serious than that, you are going to scare him away. I mean it's not time to be picking out the engagment ring. I was friends with my fiance since eight grade then senior year we started dating and became serious over the summer after we graduated. It just fell into place. We had been friends forever that it just seemed obvious for us to become a couple. Then that Christmas after we graduated he asked me to marry him. But we still haven't jumped the gun. We are just starting to talk about getting married and it wouldn't be until 2008. Just take it slow.

Answer 3

OK mans point of view, we don't like quick change and like things to flow in a natural manor, this could be quick or it could be slow, bit it is in its own time. however if you need to move things on for yourself then make a move if he's interested then he'll move with you.

Answer 4

you have to make the first move cause guys are dumb like that trust me i have the same problem with my boyfriend but not that i made a move hes not so shy

Answer 5

I have that problem with my girlfriend, its sad isnt it? I think you should find a new boyfriend who treats you right.
I really dont think he likes you if he doesent seem interested.

Answer 6

then you make a move = ) good luck!