Is it wrong to date your step sister?

Question

i need help. i love my step sister to death not just as a sister but more than that. shes everything ive been waiting for in a girl. we havent growed up together but we go to the same middle school. she feels the same way about me. shes the only one ive ever loved. she just met her dad and thats how i met her but whats funny is that in the begining of 7th grade i had a crush on her and then i found out she was my step sister that was kinda wierd. we dated one time but then she broke up with me cuz she didnt think it was right. so i need advice. GOOD ADVICE not any ewwww or thats nasty or gross or anything like that

Answer 1

Who cares if she your step sister. Date her mom too. Only criteria would be age related. She's 4 and your 38, I don't think that will do. If ya'll are from some Souther place, take her to the zoo.

Answer 2

Ok it is legal to date her, and it's not incest. I would wait though. You're very young, you probably hate hearing that but it's true, you two will have a lot of time to figure out what you want. Also if she broke up with you once before she's probably uncomfortable about it and you should respect that. It might be too much for you two to see each other as boyfriend/girlfriend and as family, you two will see so much of each other you'd think you were married. You'll know what to do as time goes on, but as for right now you should concentrate on school not your step sister.

Answer 3

Well, it wouldn't be incest, as you aren't 'blood relatives'. However, you will probably run into a lot of problems/ Eww's from other people, which will make for a difficult relationship.

But if you want to hang out in middle school, that's fine.

Answer 4

Sounds like Divine Intervention to me! You didn't grow up with her.
Hey, if it works great..but how will you guys feel if it doesn't.
If you don't live together in the same household..as sister and brother..I don't see anything particularly wrong in it.

Answer 5

this is your sister!!!!!! Whome you possibly live with (if you do, you see her everyday) picture this..... marrying and haveing sex with your sister, with the same last name always. kinda sick right? so don't date her, and plus you are only in middle school. you have a looong way to go before you find the right person.

Answer 6

well my advice, it that if you guys are young, i wouldnt do it because in all honesty it most likely wont last, and you will still have to see each other all the time, if you guys really do love each other, maybe when you are both older than it could work out, but if you are older, and dont like in your parents house, than i say it still could end awkwardly, but if its worth it to you, to possibly loose what seems like a great friend, than go for it.

Answer 7

Although there is no blood between you it is just too close a familial relationship to persue. Besides, you are only in middle school. Too young to be dating anyway.

Answer 8

No, its not incest. It is a little off though. Just because there is a indirect relation there. All in all there is nothing wrong with it. Just have fun and don't tell a lot of people. Tell us when you tag it man.

Answer 9

half sisters are a no no because of the blood relationship, but step sisters are not related by bloodline, and therefor it is acceptable. after all, you are no relation to one another are you?

Answer 10

I don't think it's legal. And aren't you a little to young to be dating?

Well, if you really, really, really, really, really, really like her, you can secretly start going out, without anyone noticing.

I can somehow relate to this, but I don't want to tell you the story.