Ok I am with my boyfrien 6 months and have not had a fight yet. Some people say its healthy to fight.
2007-02-28 10:53:34 · 27 answers · asked by moojkc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People have different ways of handling things and their emotions. There is nothing wrong with barely ever fighting. People may say fighting is healthy because it makes you stronger and makes you learn more. But maybe you have overcome many things and have learned/know a lot and know how to handle things, so there is little arguements.
2007-02-28 10:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Odessa Fraser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll happen! I was the same with my boyfriend and I was getting really worried because I thought when we did fight it'd be HUGE. Well after our first fight, which was not too bad, we just sorted things out about 2mins later. Any fight we've had after have been sorted straight away. I do think a little argument is healthy, helps clear the air...but remember 6 months is not that long ad it also depends on how much you actually know each other and see each other
2007-02-28 10:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by starla_o0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about that, obviously you two get along good enough and communicate good enough to not have to fight about something. Fighting isn't good for anything except maybe finding out about the dark side of someone. If two people can discuss thing rationally and understand everyone has there own opinions and they are just that, opinions. Two people do not have to have the same opinions about things to coexist. Just respect theirs and hopefully the will respect yours. But some people love their misery and like to fight, but it's not healthy.
2007-02-28 11:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people will say some things are good and some will say some things are bad. There arn't any rules in relationships for things like this. Some couples only survive because they argue at times and some don't.
As long as the two of you are happy, have things in comen and listen to your heart then don't worry about things that don't happen just enjoy the things that are happening now.
2007-02-28 20:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by stevie_head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy to have differences, not really healthy to fight. And it's how you go about it, too. There are some wrong and right ways to fight; never make personal attacks. Always stick to the issue at hand, don't judge, and don't bring up the past.
2007-02-28 10:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to know how you will react in a fight together...Fighting is bad, but anyway this might sound strange but make something up, agree to it, almost role play, and act it out...be real about it...if you can do that you will get a sense, and maybe that would be good
But on the other hand if it aint broke why fix it?
2007-02-28 10:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooo, fighting is bad! My husband and I have been together for 6 years (married for 2) and we have never had a fight. We have had maybe 2-3 disagreements but we never fight. "Healthy to fight" that's just ridiculous!
2007-02-28 10:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really it called arguing not fighting. Because if a man fights with a woman he will go to jail. SO argueing is good for a relationship. It lets you know hwta he likes and doesn't like about you and vice versa. SO it's healthy and normal to argue.
2007-02-28 10:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still in the honeymoon stage. Although you feel you should be past it your not it's only been six months your still getting use to being a couple. Some couples don't argue very often and have very healthy relationships
2007-02-28 11:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Spelman Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can be good to clear the air, but you should never spoil for a fight, it would be a boring world if we all held the same point of view, so don't worry about getting in to a fight, just remember they are not spectator sports
2007-02-28 10:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by river rat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋