Yes my gf of 15 long drawn out years say's i'm a Perv because I love looking at other women, so my question is is it wrong to want almost feel the need to look at other women if they are over 18 and I'm very serious on the answers please thank you
2007-02-28 10:53:32 · 13 answers · asked by rpoker 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes my gf was the same way. wat you gotta do is to stop lookin at other girls and make her feel like she is the only one for you. treat her like a princess and if she catches you lookin at other girls just say that im not interested in them and just treat her like you would want her to be treated. hope that helps.
2007-02-28 10:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, you probably shouldnt be looking at other women -in front- of her...
Second, no one can help their attractions. Everyone looks at people other than their partner. Me and my BF look at people together! (even though were not swingers or nothin)
Seriously, though, She probably feels insecure with you, and thats not really something that you should blame her for. When my mate looks at others sometimes, it does make me feel extremely uncomfortable some days (if im not in a good mood, ya know?). Do you do what you can to make her feel loved? Do you prove to her that she has nothing to fear? Notice I said "Prove" not "Say". Find a way to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about. When she does feel secure....you still probably shouldnt look at other women in front of her unless SHE says its okay. If you do it and she desnt like it, thats blatant disrespect and that's definately wrong.
Hope things dont get too bad for ya though. Take a step back, look at the WHOLE situation [how you treat her, how she treats you, what you actions and words REALLY say to her, etc...], and then act accordingly. Best of luck.
2007-02-28 11:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lee C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tuffy!
I mean some girls get jealous some dont!
Heck my hubby looks at other girls I know he wouldnt
do anything and plus I am the one that sleeps with him
at night! lol...But hey If I see a hot chic I tell him look she's hot!
lol
U know someone told me that it's a guys nature to looka t other
women!
sorry I couldnt really help ya here!
but have a great night!
and if she thinks ur a perv then I guess almost all guys r...lol look but dont touch....lol
my hubby is a good lookin guy as well..but i havent anything to worry about!
also tell her she's lucky u arent lookin at other men, that would be when she needs to start worrying...lol
2007-02-28 13:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by woohooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by catharine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are insecure of other women because of the competition...a women that is insecure will get upset at you looking at other girls. Soooo, if I were you, to cause you less problems with you're girl...don't let her catch you looking. Do it when she's looking at you when you are looking at other girls.
Avoid problems. It's sad but, most women can't handle men in their natural state of being. HELLO ....it's normal to look at other women. It's just not "respectfull" in their eyes. Most women feel disrespected if their bf looks at other girls ,when they shouldn't worry about it. Then it causes them to b*** and complain...arghh...I can't stand that....
Good luck
2007-02-28 10:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah man, your fine. It's completely natural. I even do it when I don't want to. Like critical moment meeting a new little lady friend.
It's instinctive and it really can't be helped. Don't feel bad. Just make sure your girl knows you lover her. She will get used to it.
...that or get used to the idea of blinders.
2007-02-28 10:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's natural too look...but from a woman's point of view...it makes us feel like we are not enough. n that if our lover wants something they just as well can get. it's a natural fear of ours. if you a geogous stud like my husband you can get any girl that u want and as women the prob w/ having geogous lovers (in my case husband) is that we are aware that women look at you too...this make us jealous. natually. n visa versa it's just the way we are. but if u don't look she won't feel jealous. and she won't feel like she isn't enough for u-good luck
2007-02-28 11:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by baba where art thou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, get a g/f who likes to look at women too. Start a tag team. Become notorious.
2007-02-28 10:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl and maybe she feels jealous because she wants to be as prety as the other girls to gain more attnsion from you and to insure you wont cheat on her so treat her nicely and give her all the attension you can give her x
2007-03-02 04:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by ayza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her its natural. She cant help it that she bleeds like a dead animal every month right. I mean as long as you love her thats all that matters. God gave you eyes
2007-02-28 11:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dat slavemaker pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋