A few months ago me and another friend were talking about how girls fall for cute guys on myspace soo quickly. So we made a fake myspace of a guy and were going to see how many girls flirted with him. Then somehow our other best friend, Nikki, found it and started talking to him. We were afraid to tell her the truth because she gets mad so easily so we just played along and talked to her through it. It became this big thing where Nikki really liked him and most of her friends knew about him so we made up that he had gotten a girlfriend. She got really sad but we encouraged her she didn't know him anyways and he wasn't worth it so everyone finally just forgot about it.
Then yesterday Katelyn decided to come clean about a bunch of stuff cause she made up two guys on her own and tricked both me and Nikki since then. So she was confessing to Nikki about her latest one and I'm guessing since Nikki was so mad Katelyn told her about the guy me and Katelyn made together to lighten the load...
2007-02-28 10:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
on herself. Katelyn says its better to come clean about all this now even though we promised never to tell, and she should've asked me first before telling Nikki.
This is a horrible thing that happened that I am way past and I'm completely different now but Nikki gets mad so easily and this is huge. I can't ignore it because we have 3rd period together at school everyday. How do I make it up to her and apologize?
Please help.
2007-02-28 10:49:09 · update #1
Come clean with her. Tell her how you know it was wrong, and what you learned from it, how you didn't want to say anything because you realized how much she was hurt and upset. Tell her that she's your friend, and you're terribly sorry you hurt her and that you hope she can forgive you, so you can continue to be friends.
If Katelyn "told" on you, then she's not much of a friend to you, is she?
Be prepared though, Nikki may not be able to forgive you for it. good luck.
2007-02-28 10:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wouldnt let something like that get in between my friendship..but I guess she did get hurt. So my advice to you is to just be honest with her about evrything. about how you felt bad and you wanted to tell her. I mean sure she will be mad, but its better to let her know your side of the story, instead of letting her think that she knows what happened. Just answer all her questions and apologize. But dont try to kiss her ***, because once she accepts that, then shes not a real friend..GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-28 10:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, since you did something wrong by playing with your best friend's heart, go apologize.
it's upto Nikki to accept your apology or not, but you will feel much better that you acknowledged and apologized for what you've done wrong.
I don't think Nikki was your best friend anyways, because best friends will never do anything to hurt each other.
you need to learn from this lesson and grow up too.
2007-02-28 10:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! That's a tough one. The best advice I can give is to continue to be honest with her and help her with things when she lets you. After a while, if you give her no more reason to distrust you, things should get better. I know this is probably not the answer you are looking for, but it is the only "sure-fire" way of mending a relationship.
2007-02-28 10:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how it all began and explain that you were not trying to hurt her. You guys should have said the truth since it all began; you will have to apologize for not doing that. Just talk to her and try to find the words. Good luck.
2007-02-28 10:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by piksy_rose1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u were wrong in doing that
and ur more than sorry
ask her for her forgiveness and say that u shouldn`t have done it and u love her (friend love) too much to let her go as a friend
send her balloons and chocolate and a cake with "sorry on it"
or bring it to her house urself
maybe then she will forgive u
2007-02-28 10:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by ilovesoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how sorry you are, and how mean it was of you all and what lesson you learned from it. she has the right to accept or reject your offer of friendship right now, or ever. but explaining and apologizing will take a burden off of you of self guilt.
2007-02-28 10:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋