OMG! this same thing happened to me! & the weird thing was they both had the SAME NAME! I cried for mos...One had kids & would do anything for me & the other couldnt have kids but would do anything for me as well...I couldnt decide for the life of me! but I had to think of an answer quick....I chose the one with the kids...why, because of how he treated them...I saw the unconditional love he gave them....but then, because I was the "new comer" I was ostricized by everyone-his mother, his X, his kids...& it hurt...everyday! I could never talk to him about it because he wouldnt accept it...(which was even more hurtful)
I am still in love with the other guy, but I'd never go back to him...Being with my husband taught me so many different things...but most of all, he taught me how to love myself!
Ya gotta do what your heart feels is right...there are pros & cons to everything....It would be sooo much fun for you to play with your b/f's 7 yr old...but always remember....there will be resentment...both from her & her mother...If you can tuff out the resentment you'll be just fine...but let me tell you its not easy! & you will get mad! & say mean things...(even though you dont mean to)....Go with what your heart says honey...Pray to God...Have Faith....You'll be ok!
2007-02-28 11:05:14
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answered by east2west92 4
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You have to follow your heart. With the rich guy you'll never be happy. You'll have everything you want but you'll still have an empty feeling. With the poor guy both of you can work hard enough to become rich. Materials only last a while, but feelings and love lasts forever. I hope whoever you choose will be your best choice and that you end up happy.
2007-02-28 10:54:22
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answered by Laura B 1
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I married a rich man once.It was the worst 18 years of my life not to mention wasted youth. I loved him, thought he loved me but it was just the conquer he was after. He was a stuck up snob to my friends and family.I'm not saying your rich suitor will be that way.How long have you known these men? Why not wait? After time their true characteristics will show through.I personally would chose love over money.
2007-02-28 11:03:07
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answered by gabeymac♥ 5
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Well don't marry a man just because he is rich for one. Your feelings for him as a person not your feeling for his bank account. love should be the most important part of the relationship. you say they love you but you don't really say if you love them. Maybe neither one is the right one the marry. Your not ready
2007-02-28 10:55:49
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answered by Spelman Angel 2
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existence is complicated once you're making it complicated. sometimes that's the folk you loaf around with. sometimes it could in basic terms be the variety you reside your existence. even though occurs to you at present or interior the previous will effect what occurs to you interior the destiny. So attempt to perform a little issues which will shop your destiny much less complicated (if achieveable). i wish I responded your question. :)
2016-10-16 23:29:02
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answered by ? 4
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Life is hard for sure, you have to look at both guys, and decide who will be nicer to you. Thats alll that really matters.
2007-02-28 10:50:20
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answered by Anonymous
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life is only as hard as you make it. is money that important to you? if not than follow your heart or you will be miserable.
2007-02-28 10:54:28
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answered by fallen_angel 4
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