my girlfriend was trying to push me away and i asked her why and she said cause she didnt want to hurt me cause i was to good and perfect to hurt and i asked her what happened she told me she went out with a guy from her work to a party and this guy kissed her and she let him but she says it was for a few seconds who knows . she is crying for me not to leave her and she said it was a mistake what should i do . she said she loves me and she'll never do it again but i dont know if i should take her back .
2007-02-28 10:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Things happen. She feels bad.
You know what? Some people, when they're not expecting to be kissed, are so surprised that they don't react right away, especially if it's someone they're friends with.
She loves you and was honest enough to tell the truth, and she didn't initiate it.
I think you should take her back, only if you think you'll really forgive+forget and not bring up the kiss every argument you have until the end of time.
2007-02-28 10:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she admitted it, which means she really is sorry about it and does not want to hurt you. Just allow her a second chance. EVERYONE deserves a second chance. She will feel so good that you have forgiven her and will appreciate that you gave her a second chance to show that she won't do that again. But if you don't love her then don't take her back. Do what feels right to you.
2007-02-28 10:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just tried one experiment and she feels terrible. Break up with her next time if she does something. This gives you the liscense to cheat on her 1 time but would you really want to?
I wouldn't. Make a good choice she could be your soul mate.
2007-02-28 10:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy that some other guy likes her, it's a compliment really. just remember that she wants only you and sometimes it takes things like kissing another guy or something to realize what is more important to us, someone we just met or someone who would stay by our side forever. don't break up with her over something that she learned her lesson over. people deserve second chances and you would really crush her.
2007-02-28 10:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by kimcml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....6 years seems like a long time tell her you forgive her cuz i mean 1 kiss over a 6 year period but i guess that's bad that she let him i guess what i would do is tell her to go out with that guy and break up with her cuz i mean SHE LET HIM KISS HER!
not very good
2007-02-28 10:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her..yuo have to decide how sorry she actually is..she may have been just having doubts about the relationship and wanted to make sure she wasnt falling for someone else..if she really loves you..shell drop the other guy in a heart beat.
2007-02-28 10:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by amza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She DID admit that she did it. It seems that she really loves you and doesn't want to hurt you. It's your choice what to do, but keep that in mind before you make a quick decision.
2007-02-28 10:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by wishafur 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a *****, always a *****.
The only thing that will happen next time is that "you will not find out about it"
2007-02-28 10:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by shaggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her back dude if she was the one that kissed him then i might say differently but the guy kissed her so i think i would take her back
2007-02-28 10:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by G McGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been 2gether for 6yrs then i think its worth it if you give her one more chance xshe was honest this time and if she does it again ahe will probably be honest again
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-28 11:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by vallan1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋