I Lost The Person I LOVE The Most, Should I Try To Get Her Back?

Question

She did not like me, but with time she realized that I really liked her. After A year and seven months we have had our arguments, but on Sunday I told her that I haven't been feeling the same with the college right around the corner. I had her finally, she told me she loved me she looked at me and cried because she was so happy with me. I felt like that at one point but when she expressed her feelings I was scared. I couldn't respond the same way without lying. After telling her that I didn't feel the same way, that something was missing she cried and told me to take two weeks to think about things. After an hour I was ok and told her not to worry about anything. Then on Tuesday I was being mean to her and she got mad. She told me to leave her house and I did, on the way home she told me that she had enough and that she didn't want to talk to me anymore. The next day I bought her a diamond ring and she didn't accept it, after she said no she told me that she realized she didn't love me

Answer 1

the saying if you love something let it go and if it comes back then its meant to be let her go if she doesnt love you honey find someone that will there are more fish in the sea

Answer 2

I think it sounds a little too early for a diamond ring here...That may have been a fatal mistake. Something like that can definitely turn a girl off and scare her away completely, especially given the rockyness of the whole relationship dynamic that you described. If you are going off to college, I would let things cool down a bit..because if she still does care about u, she'll come back on her own. Otherwise, it may be time to move on. The fall from your first love is always the hardest.

Answer 3

srry, but you screwed up big time, never be mean to a girl especially one you love!! if you want her back you're goin to have to try extremely hard, do something embarrassing for her like sing a song for her in front of everyone and she will realize that ou would make a complete idiot out of yourself just for her and that will make her feel special.

Answer 4

You better go and apologize to her right now, mister.You can't live with yourself knowing you lost the one person you truly love, all because of one screw-up!!! Go after her. Tell her you love her. Yeah there's more fish in the sea, but not like that one. What are you waiting for. Stop reafing and GGGGGGGGGGOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!