I had an affair that I confessed to my wife recently and she is palgued by images of me with the other woman - I desperatley wan to help her deal with the pain
2007-02-28 09:57:41 · 4 answers · asked by J C 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Bad memorys are made to fade!
2007-02-28 12:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by michael m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the memories become less important, they will naturally fade away. Make your wife feel loved and desired. Give her lots of affection, and, when you feel the moment is right, just flirt with her a little, in a light, natural way! Always be sincere; don't force anything.
Express your regret about your mistake, and tell her that the affair MADE YOU APPRECIATE HER MORE, IN EVERY WAY. The little things our men do and say mean a lot to us women, believe me. Have patience...
A nice idea is to give her a little gift: a day at the salon for hair, nails, etc then take her out to dinner, have a romantic night. When you first see her after her "day of beauty," make sure to tell her how beautiful she looks. She will be paying attention to the look in your eyes, so focus on her, give her your attention... Hope this helps...
(The reason for this suggestion is bec your wife's self-esteem has been shattered. Beauty stuff makes us women feel better in that regard...)
2007-02-28 18:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sheer will power, warping them with something else, changing it, its pretty hard to do it though, you can never fully rid of memories
2007-02-28 18:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to peekvid and watch the movie the secret
2007-02-28 18:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋