Why are so many of you men going back to cheating ex girlfriends?

Question

Do you not realize that there are STDs out there that you can catch by sticking your penis into a bunch of lowlife cheating jokers? Just because she said she loves you doesn't make it true; because love is action, and if that were true, then she would not have cheated on you, or be cheating on her new boyfriend with you! She would respect you more to let you move on and find yourself a good woman, or better yet, let a good woman find YOU!
Why do so many of you lack a healthy self esteem to be fine and dandy with being single for a while? Is it that you are so desperate for a woman you are willing to let women use you up like Tampax so you can say you have one?
Why do you come on Yahoo answers thinking one of us will validate behavior patterns of one with a low self esteem? why can't you figure it out for yourself that a cheating woman will always cheat cause he knows she can?
Men, why?

I asked this to women,

Answer 1

I know I'm not a women but I feel I might be able to answer this question pretty fairly. The fact of the matter is that it works on both sides of the spectrem and the reason are most of the time personal but can usually be a few universal things that tend to cross all boundries. One important fact is that love isn't something you can just "move on" from. If it was that easy we all be some pretty cold yet questionably happier people. The heart scars and its easy for people to take advantage. Another thing is that we all are dealing with a certian level of abandoment issues because we live in a society that doesn't truely appriciate how love effects us. You have a pretty health aspect of it but that doesn't always fit everyone because in the game of love were all feeling a little betrayed and lets face it lonely. Hopes a powerful thing and we well sacrifice a day of having to suffer thur no hope, even if it means suffering longer. We love to live in the moment but unfornatly love doesn't. Its an enternal thing and people have a habit of hurting themselves the same way if they didn't learn there lesson the first time, second time, or even the hunderth. Besides we all believe that in romatic relationships they don't have to be our "friends" (which isn't the way it works) they just have to want us sexually and thats good enough. Not really a relationship but more of an agreement. And this can go on for a long time with love developing in the background but no other true way to show it. The fact is, that most people that return back to individuals that have blantly cheating on them, don't have many other good relationships in there lives to compare to. Making it even hard to know if there dealing with something geniune or not. Besides we live in a society that loves fast satisfaction and its so easy to give in to a sure bad thing then to wait on an nonsure good thing. Even thou thats not the reality just how we've painted for ourselves. But this is sort of an oversimplification because alot of situations like that can have many other factors influencing it. One thing also is that all of us deal with a certian level of low self-esteem because we live in a society that puts more importance of charater on how much they used the system to there own advantage not on how they've help people. So its good to be "bad" and bad to be "good" how are we soppose to know what to do? And in the mean time how do we feel good about ourselves... well I guess anyone that well help us well do... just too bad it isn't always good people, but bad people helping themselves.

Answer 2

you're 7 weeks postpartum, and which could mess with a lady's thoughts. i'd ask to make sure his telephone, and get in contact with the shape. you'll comprehend even if it really is his sister at the same time as she solutions the phone. If it really is his ex, tell her that if she needs a guy who would sneak round on his female friend and new toddler, she will be in a position to have him. Hand him his telephone, and tell him the subsequent time you spot him will be in courtroom. He must be lengthy gone a minimum of a few days earlier you opt even if you're taking him decrease back or no longer. toddlers and being pregnant can mess with a guy too, yet there is not any excuse for dishonest.