Please help me!?

Question

ok. this guy i really like doesnt talk to me on aim anymore or at school. we just tell each other wat is for h/w.
and he talks to my best friend and he doesnt evn have any classes with her, while i have 6 with him.
i think that i am jealous of my best friend.
please tell me why you think he doesnt respond to me on aim or why he talks to my best friend whose last name he doesn't even know...

Answer 1

No offense but it could be you. Which could mean your not high enough on the social ladder to your just to nice. Besides sounds like young game and if you get caught up letting people so young determine how you should feel about yourself, your going to be hurt. This isn't a overly serious time in your life. This is the time were you learn what to trust and what not to trust. First lesson here and usually its only wisdom that teaches you that; be darn careful who you decide to love or like. With that said I'd let this boy go, if there not earning your attention they sure don't deserve it. Also talk to your best friend, we should always have relationships with our friends that allow us to be more important then any new person to the situtation and if she isn't respect that and only hurting you, you need to let her know. At this point in your lives its better to have best friends then lovers. Lovers are so much harder to handle and trust me intell your really ready you can end up screwing up the rest of your life. Take caution.