We have been seeing each other for 3 months. We talk on the phone atleast everyother day and we go out atleast once or twice a week. Things have been moving very slow with us. He actually only kissed me for the first time the other day. I dont know wether he is just shy or what is going on with him. But anyway, I want to know where this is going or what he is thinking. We have not said anything about us being a "couple" but I have met his mom and he invited me to his nieces birthday party with his family so I it feels to me like we are more than just friends but I dont like to assume anything!!! So basically what I am asking is how shoud I ask him where this is going or what he is thinking with out scaring him. I dont want him to think that I am asking for a commitment I just want to know if there is a possibility of there being one or if he wants there to be one. I like him and I can see potential there but I also dont want to stick around waiting if it is not.
2007-02-28 09:47:38 · 2 answers · asked by luvlylale 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say that to him, you can't be afraid of saying the wrong thing with someone you share any sort of deep feelings with. Thats a hard way to be in a relationship and isn't the way there met to be handle. Its time for the "test" really and your not testing him your testing youself. You need to be able to communicate these types of feelings and concerns with him, without feeling like your going to loss the guy. Its not fair to you and it isn't fair to him at all. Be honest if that runs him off then he isn't worth it. From what you've said I sure wouldn't get the impression that your trying to comment me or "tie me down", just that your interested in how serious I feel about you. Trust him or maybe he isn't someone you can trust, but relationships don't work well when one of the people or both have to walk on eggshells. You need to realize that being honest with people is never a good reason for them to just up and leave, and in reality it takes a lot more then that to run off someone who really loves you. Time to find out which. Swallow that pride and love this guy!
2007-03-01 02:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like his speaking garbage, and that i imagine in case you pass bk to this guy he will harm you! yet regardless of this actually everyone advantages a second probability? i'd not pass bk cos ur proper his excuses were stupid and his had a great number of time to the contact you so stay away, in case you do pass decrease back i'd make it sparkling tht his behaviour isn't perfect, be agency! and also in case you do pass decrease back and grants him a second probability be alert, dont leap in! and the first signal of him doing some thing like this lower back i'd be out!!!
2016-12-05 02:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋