am i the only one?

Question

i have been withthis guy for about three months. and things have been ok. we've had our ups and downs but it seems as though we are growing apart. we do not spend as much time together as before and we fight almost every day. what do i do?

Answer 1

Have you talked about why you have grown apart? Maybe you need to sit down and have a serious conversation about where things are going. If there is alot of fighting going on, you both must be stressed out over something that no one is discussing. Try the discussion and see what you both come up with. If either of you has already thrown in the towel, it's time to get out of it.

Answer 2

How old are u?? Seriously, you guys are having these kinds of problems after 3 months & your question is are u the 1...let it go. The first 3 to 6 months are suppose to be fun in a new relationship. You may have a few clashes down the getting to know each other road, but for the most part, he should be crazy about you right now..not growing apart. DON'T EVER ASK YOURSELF R U THE 1, ASK YOURSELF IS HE.

Move on while it's still fresh & before you get your heart broken.

Answer 3

omg!! i am going kinde through the same thing!! its SOO annoying. It kinda depends onhow old you are too. Maybe hes just getting really comfortable with you. The advice i keep getting is if a guy starts to distance himself and not show any effort, play hard to get. Kinda disappear for a bit ( a coupl days) and he'll start to wonder wats up. if he doesnt notice the distant after that, then sit him down any have a serious adult conversation without getting upset or angry because then he just wont listen. Communication is SOOO important and you have been with him long enough to be able to open up to him. Try the hard to get thing first, and the 'talk' later.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 4

You fight almost every day? Sounds like me and my ex. Get out while you can.

Sit down and name 5 GOOD reasons why you want to be with him, then write 5 BAD ones. Be honest with yourself, the only one you would cheat would be yourself.

Once you look at your lists, you will know. Your heart doesn't lie. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

Answer 5

Hang in there. If you think something is wrong, then ask him. If he says there's nothing wrong, don't worry yourself out of the relationship. If other things you enjoy doing with seem to be far and few, I may raise the red flag, without making it seem as if you are pestering him. Good relationships stand the test of time becuase we allow our significant others to do what they enjoy in their own time. relationships remain strong when you and yours discuss the future, you're are open and honest, and all you can think about is him/her when you're away from home. Hey, good luck to ya!

Answer 6

I didn't think it was possible to grow apart after three months. You should be spending time getting to know one another, that should give you your answer right there.

Answer 7

I would say that by the way that things are progressing, he is not the right one|

Your subconscious is picking that fact up (for both of you), and you are acting on it|

Just give it more time, and if it cools sufficiently, you can both agree to break it off with hopefully not too many hard feelings on both sides|

But it would definitely have been a learning experience for both of you|




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Answer 8

He's not meant for you. No you're not the only one. Plenty of women stick around even though they know the relationship isnt all 2 good. Then they get married and shortly after marriage they get divorced. Dont stick around. it will only cause you more heartbreak. if you fight now you'll fight forever...its not worth it

Answer 9

let him go. there is no reason to cheat, it doesnt solve anything and you're still in the same relationship. Try to talk to him about it first, if you want.

Answer 10

Talk to him, and respect him even whn there is no hint of love.