Me and my boyfriend have decided to just be friends. Accutually he decided for us. The problem I am having is that he stays in my backyard in a seperate house. We seperated on Saturday and I told him I did not want too. Now I know that he knows that I still love him. If I keep pursing him will I push him farther away. He is supposed to be home from work now so I am figuring he is at the bar. Usually I would yell at him for staying out and not coming home. I know he loves me, and will probably try to make up the problem is that we always make up when he wants to. Should I just ignore him when he wants to come in and talk to me tommorrow. I feel like maybe I should let it go altogher. I feel so lost right now.
2007-02-28 09:11:23 · 4 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the same thing keeps happening, it's not worth it! Especially when you only talk and make up on his terms. Sounds like he leaves so he can do things he wants to do and then comes back when he is ready. This isn't a relationship you want to stay in. He comes crawling back, you talk and tell him that he decides this again and you are done. You can stay friends but that will be all. You will end up hurting yourself more than anything if you stay in the situation. If you already threatened before to make the next time the last....then end it now. You'll be better off for it!
2007-02-28 09:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you and your bf live together..and he always makes the major/minor decisions for you..and you always agreed.
Hummmhhhh...what are you doing? don't you have mind of your own? or does he have no idea that you do know how to think for yourself? Come on....step up to him....what are you seriously doing and going with this? You have to leave him be. Let him realize what he lost. If you really love him, if he comes after you, give him a second chance. But at this point you need to pack your bag....go on...pack ... pack....
2007-02-28 17:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out of the house that he lives in behind yours. You can do better. He does not sound like a reliable or good person. Good Luck!
2007-02-28 17:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by over the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got it! let it go.
2007-02-28 17:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋