im asking a guy out and what do i say if he says no??
what do i do when i see him if he says no?
2007-02-28 09:09:09 · 7 answers · asked by mee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I guess you could just try to look at it like this, if he doesnt want it then really why would you? IT wouldnt end up being a good relationship anyways so what are you missing in the end, now hay you never know he could originally say no or some form of that rejection if you want to call it that and then later something may come of it, and if your really concerned with it maybe dont ask just try to form a friendship first and sorta feel your way around the situation before making any life changing decision, ya know. My favorite saying I always say that I've heard over time is life is 10% what happens to you and 90% what you make of it.
2007-02-28 09:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the end of the world. You will experience more rejection along the way of your life. It can be embarrassing for a moment or two, however, you will need to learn the humor in rejection. He said no to be because I am not pretty enough...no no...think of it this way, he said no to be because I am much too better than him....and laugh it out. When you see him the next time...say hi...and act normal. Give him the impression that you are ok with rejection, further you will look much much...COOL...
Good luck!
2007-02-28 17:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he says no......say okay just thought I'd ask and walk away.
Then when you see him again....act like nothing happened.
The worst thing you can do is to get all weird and sad.
I mean if you are sad just keep it to yourself.....cry at home if need be, but dont let him know that its a big deal.
Plus that will help you to get over the rejection faster.
Good luck
2007-02-28 17:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to him. If he rejects you, don't think too much into it. There could be a number of reasons why. I would act natural, there is nothing worse than feeling like you hurt someone's feelings simply by being honest
2007-02-28 17:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on Keep your head up and move to the next guy!
2007-02-28 17:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by Tricee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i get angry, don't show it of course, play it cool like it's no big deal you just wanted to hang out for a bit.
2007-02-28 17:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph accept his decision and simply move on
2007-02-28 17:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋