what do you think?

Question

Last nite my friend or i live with and i have feelings for was messing around in the kicthen and cut his pinkie finger really badly and was bleeding like crazy. I helped him out cleaned it up and put some bandages on it. I asked if he wanted to go see a doctor and he said he didnt know . And he didnt wanna bother me by taking him there and i said he was no problem. So instead he called and askes his b$itch of a girlfriend if she take him and she got mad and said no! So instead i ended up taking him. I took him to the er and waited with him , we just talked about how upset that she didnt care enough to be there with him but we ended up laughing and talking about the past. They finally called him back there i stayed in the waiting room and waited for about 2 hr's then finally asked whats the deal with him. they took me back there he was sleeping but he woke up. I told him he was lucky i was there for him and he said yeah he appericated it . Later his girlfriend called him and told him it

that they were over cause i took him to the hospital ...how dumb! ...Anyways do you think he will see that im the who really cares for him , i was there with him the whole time we lefted at 11pm and got home at 4am , I neva lefted his side. what u think about this?

Answer 1

Yeah.
I think this will make him open his eyes to the real woman in his life. If he fails to do so, I think you need to bring it to his attention. Not the whole part about you staying, but about her not staying and being there when he needed someone.

Hope this helps, and hope all goes well for ya! - The both of ya!

Answer 2

You did what you had to do as a friend so don't think too much about the relationship. Don't forget the he already has a girlfriend. Whether the girlfriend shows concern or not is for them both to sort it out and not you as a 3rd party. Move on with your life and drop the thought about making the relationship works.

Answer 3

i think he would be lucky to be with you instead of her, she sounds like the crazy ex i had, and i could of left her to be with my friend who has been the best person i ever meet, and she would hold my head up while i was drunk and basically did what you did for him, but i ****** it up by going back to my ex fro a while and when i was done with her i lost my chance with the other one, i am one stupid drunk some times, all i am trying to say is that he shouldnt pass up this chance with you, and if you two can be level headed about dating and living together it could blosom into a beatiful realationship. Best of luck and let him know hoe you feel. sometimes the best thing is under your nose and you dont even see it, so push it in his face

Answer 4

oh wow. that sound interesting. well the best thing i can tell you is to chill. over the last few days i have realised that life is to short to wonder and play games. we need to take chances and live life to the fullest. so heres what you need to do. go to him and talk. you are good frineds so askhim questions about his gf. like why he likes her and whats th deal with them. i have this guy that im in love with and his gf was really bad. she called him on his birthday and old him to drop dead thinking it was funny. and i just didnt get why he liked her. but later they broke up and i over jeard him talking about how horrible and crazy she was. and his friends were sayn how guys always take a long time to realize that they can have so much better. so be his freind. but mabey act like a little more. treat him great but at the same time flirt. but not tomuych. he might get scared. guys are difficult. they like a girl oneday and than act like they never excisted the next day. so dont be shy. take charge but slowly. everyday get closer and closer. soon he will see what he was missing all along. trust me, its a garanteed plan.

good luck!!!
hope i helped!!

Answer 5

just be careful. he cant turn on his feelings for you and turn off his ex g/f feelings overnight. you have to give things time before you make a bold move like that. now yes, i think he sees the difference between the two women, but be careful. you dont want to be the rebound in this case. you are flying solo, where he is thinking about her crap and everything in the past. if you like him, you need to give him time to get over her, and really make this work. you will get hurt in the end if he doesnt get that chance to get over her 100%

Answer 6

He needs to ask himself this question..... Can I imagine myself withthat girl forever?

You should let him know that you are there for him cause you care about him and want the best for him. It should let him know that there might be some other feelings there on your end. Good luck.

Answer 7

I think that you should tell him how you feel and that if he's not interested then fine but that you thought he should know. Maybe if you tell him it will make him look at you in a different way and you could have a relationship

Answer 8

men are blind , just jump his bones and get what you want and need and if he stays with her it wont be because you didnt try. i hope you are older than 18 or else youll have to disregard the message and follow this rule instead ..... dont worry about it

Answer 9

ur a great friend and who cares about that B---? She doesn't even care about him