Ok I am with this amazing guy and we have been together for 2 years. I love him so much and he treats me amazing. There is this other guy who I used to date. We were friends for years and we never had the title but we were always together and etc. Well a lot of things went down between us and we lost contact and then I started dating my current boyfriend. I talk to his other guy off and on, but just as friends. Everytime I talk to him I get those feelings back that I had for him. I miss him soo much, but I feel that since we let things get too close our friendship won't be the same. I want to bring this issue up with him ,but I am scared it will just distance us even more. There were a lot of things unresolved between us. Also I don't want to upset my current man, because I don't want him to feel threaten. What to do??
2007-02-28 08:56:06 · 5 answers · asked by jennisea04 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes we must make a sacrifice for love, if your current bf is the one you truly love, then you must let the other one go and move on. Sometimes you never do get everything resolved and there will always be a special place in your heart, but the reward of being with someone you love that truly loves you and is good to you will make the sacrifice worth it. Be fair to the current guy and treat him right.
2007-02-28 09:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep things between your "ex" completely platonic. It is perfectly fine for you to feel the feelings that you used to feel for him, as long as its just feelings and you don't act on it. I would say not to mention it to the "ex" because you may give him an impression that you dont mean to AND there is no need to upset your current boyfriend. You don't want him to get worked up over nothing and you don't want him to lose his trust. It doesn't seem like its worth it
2007-02-28 17:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allowing your emotions to take effect in your life can only serve to created problems. Choose one or the other, and then dismiss further thoughts about the one not chosen.
You can do this. Simply train yourself to avoid thinking about the other guy. When you do, quickly shift your thinking toward the guy you do like. Think about your times together, think about what you are going to do the next time you see each other.
Thinking about both will only lead to trouble. You may loose both of them.
2007-02-28 17:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your current guy, forget about the other one. Who cares if anything is "unresolved." You have had two years of a good relationship to get over him. Don't screw it up.
2007-02-28 16:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by astralpen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know that you are mixed up and instead of wondering be true to the one you are with but dont let go of your friendship as time will only tell you which way to go and if you play your cards right you cant go wrong .
2007-02-28 17:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by whatisthisallabout? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋