me and my boyfriend have dated for 3 months now and im ready to have sex with him, but i want to make it the BEST he has ever had. Does neone have ne tips or advice?
2007-02-28 08:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by meggie_boo_0117 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be wild and pleasing, please him......be dirty hehe
2007-02-28 08:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Peter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After you have picked the perfect private spot. Lights should be on but subdued, such as placing a red scarf over a lamp to soften the brightness and create a certain special look. If you can find strawberries and liquid chocolate, that would be good. Small cherry bits and whip cream are fun. Handcuffs are velvet ropes are fun. Music should be soft and romantic, preferably without vocals. Actually the first time usually isn't always the best because you will both be nervous, and the things I mentioned would probably work best after the first night. If you feel like some of these would work though go ahead and try some. I think I just got caught up in the moment.
2007-02-28 17:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dutch 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes. Does he like a take charge woman in bed, or would he rather be the more dominant partner? How you do this depends on how well you know him. Is he a damn the torpedos, full speed ahead kind of guy? (Just ask, make a game out of it, even.) Or is he reserved ? If he is reserved, sometimes it is better to pretend that you are asking questions for a "friend" or in a hypethetical situation, even though he will probably guess it is you. It takes the stress off of his answers, as for some reason, pretending the answer is for and about someone else does that for a reserved person.
2007-02-28 17:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do Unto him as you would have him do Unto you . Use your imagination. Thats the key to fulfilling his every desire. Ask him what he'd like and hey if he's NOT to shy, he will tell you by his sounds and actions and hey maybe even verbally. Have fun ! ! !
Don't pay attention to the one that talked about ANAL sex because anything that hurts the other person isn't my idea of good sex.Unless you nibble a lttile here and there . Also don't believe that it will feel better to him cause the opening would be smaller cause thats not what God made for man to put his privates into. Don't put something into an opening that stuff comes out, if I have to be so graphic.Just be your passionate self and he'll love you no-matter what you do.
2007-02-28 17:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants. This is the key to making sex great anyway. If we are not told or ask what turns us on or what can be improved, then sex is just sex and isn't any fun. Take things slow, have a lot of foreplay, and let him guide the direction into what will make it the BEST ever!
2007-02-28 16:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by miss_psychologist 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should start off kinda slow and make it a lil unexpected. Take his shirt off and then his belt (if he's wearing one), then shart making out with him. Romove his pants, and SLOWLY remove his boxers (or whitey tighties) let him remove your clothes, too. Kiss him all over then u will just fall into sex. let him be on top (if he wants to) and let him go as hard or as rough as he wants. Let him lead and if it comes to a dull moment makeout for a while or go down on him.....(guys back me up....lemme know if this sounds good to u) Hope I could help :)......oh yea.....don't forget protection. lol!
2007-02-28 17:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by xzorcist00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect
2007-02-28 16:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him what he would like, but remember that you have to feel comfortable with this too, and you have to enjoy this as will its not all about the man, they are usually happy just to have sex.Weather its the best or just average
2007-02-28 17:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Annemarie E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do to be the best is to BE CONFIDENT... in yourself, in your body and in you abilities in the sack... another important thing is to enjoy yourself and leave your inhibitions @ the door Good luck!!
2007-02-28 17:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little dirty talk and some low moaning do the trick for me every time.
2007-02-28 16:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing more erotic than an enthusiastic partner. Go for it with gusto, use your voice and all other parts of you.
2007-02-28 16:56:56 · answer #11 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋