Okay so, i've been with my fiance for awhile and HE knows im not a morning person, i feel the most rude thing you can do to someone the 1st thing in the morning is by how you wake them up.. He has been a jerk lately and the past few times the way he has been waking me up is becoming a problem..He comes in the room after he is up and truns the light on and yells @ me to get up, and if i dont he comes over to the bed and shakes it, rippes the covers off, ect.. I tell to to stop and let me Just wake up, he calls me a B----, and tells me hes sick of living w, one? Is he tring to tell me something?
2007-02-28 08:49:09 · 33 answers · asked by TIKI 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he's being a REAL JERK!!! If this is a sign of what's to come with him, I'd run away screaming!!!!! He doesn't care about you or what makes you mad or upset. If he doesn't care about this, what else will he do in the future that will tick you off??!! He calls you a B----? RUN!!!!! Do not pass go, do not collect $200!!!
Oh, why? Maybe he has cold feet and doesn't want to get married. Maybe he wants to call it off and this is the only way he can think of? I don't really know. Why don't you calmly ask him (at night time) why he is doing this? Tell him if you doesn't stop it, you're gone. If he does it again the next morning, you will know he wants you gone.
2007-02-28 08:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya think? If you can't take that hint, you must be brain dead..WOW, that is someone I'd like to grow old with, and count on for love and comfort!! Sorry for sounding so nasty, but what are you thinking, letting someone speak to you that way?Do you not like yourself at all? Apparently not, because it sure shows! You are needing a huge dose of self esteem, and confidence, and doesn't sound like you will be getting it where you live. I think it's time you take a good look around you, and be honest with yourself. I truly do wish you well.The jerk is being this way because he has NO respect for you, and does NOT love you.
2007-02-28 08:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but are you sleeping really late and being lazy? Or is he waking you up at like 6 or 7 am? If he keeps calling you a B---- and says he is sick of living with one then maybe you need to find another boyfriend who will let you sleep when you need it.
2007-02-28 08:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by clion71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED ALERT!!! If he's being like this when you're engaged, guess how's he going to be when you're married. No guy should EVER call you a B----, no matter what the situation. I would leave this guy before he gets any more abusive. My fiance knows I'm not a morning person and he just quietly gets up and makes himself some coffee. Please leave before he does something worse to you, don't let it be too late!
2007-02-28 08:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run run run! You are in an abusive relationship! Get out now before you marry this toxic monster.
Don't stay with someone that calls you that. Don't let anyone disrespect you that way.
You need to be telling him SEE YA! Seriously you need to get out of the relationship NOW!
2007-02-28 08:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a live one.They start out nice but you have to read between the lines, if hes calling you names now ,what will it be next week?????? You sit him down and explain to him that you wont be treated like that and if he dont like it,go your seperate ways cause you CAN find someone who will RESPECT you.Respect is what carries a relationship through.
2007-02-28 09:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by TammyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit him down and talk to him and explain to him that you need to wake up in the morning on your own. If you are not needed to be up and holding his hand when he is up then i don't understand the problem, are you late to work? Does this affect your life in your life style anyway besides bothering him? Talk to him and try to work it out.
2007-02-28 08:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has lived through a similar experience....He is literally SCREAMING at you that he's not the one for you! Can you imagine what he will be like AFTER marriage? Oh, and P.S.-marriage don't change 'em....just makes 'em worse. Be patient, get rid of this bozo, and wait for the lovely creature that watches you while you sleep just because....p..p.s.-I don't know ya, but ya ain't no ***** ;)
2007-02-28 09:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you let it bother you a little less he might back off. but men are men. i know exactly what you mean. my dad use to be like that. i think its just one of those flaws you might have to get over if you are planning on being with him. try talkin to him about it, but seriously...... he may just enjoy being annoying a little too much. and its only because he loves you deep down. no excuse to call you a *****, but try handeling it different when he wakes you up tomorrow.
2007-02-28 08:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hei, I don't know if HE is trying to tell you something, but his behavior is not exactly a loving one! Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who show no respect for your needs and call you B---?
I wouldn't.
Try talking to him, if you get nowhere, leave him at his manners!
2007-02-28 08:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus is my Savior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋