what do you do if your bf has a lot of girls that like him and they know that he has a gf.( by the way we dont go to the same high school, and he is 15 and im 14) But any ways these girls keep on puting notes in his locker saying all different types of love letters. he told his sisters about it( play sisters) and they took care of 10 of them ( there is 24 by the way) so that means 14 to go. So he is about ready to fight them. What im asking is WHAT SHOULD I DO AS IS GF SHOULD I TRUST HIM TO TAKE CARE OF IT OR SHOULD I TAKE CARE OF IT. What do you think....?????
2007-02-28 08:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All good relationships are built on trust. As much as you may want to take care of it, it is his responsibility to deal with them. Not only will that make it far more clear to them what he wants (than if it came from you) but hew ould be proving to you he is trustworthy be fending them off for himself.
2007-02-28 08:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a harmless thing called puppy love. Take it as a compliment that he is such a great guy that other girls like him. Stay out of handling anything for him. He will need his own experiences to grow up and so will you. You can continue to be friends but I do not know about a girlfriend/boyfriend situation because the two of you have not lived long enough to really understand what it really means to be a boyfriend/girlfriend
2007-02-28 16:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is you are too young to have all this drama. Like I always say books before boys, you shouldn't be dating @ this age. You have your whole future ahead of you and there will more guys (boys) you meet in you life, and you'll think back to this like OMG I can't believe I was putting up with this. The reason I say it is, it seems like your bf. likes attention because why is he telling you if he really wants to be with you all he has to to is let it known that he has a gf. and avoid this kinda heartache you feel, and insecurities (which it sounds like it). Good luck, and keep your head up your just a little lady take it slow focus in school.
2007-02-28 16:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're young and this is an immature question. Second, if you are in a relationship where your guy really cares for you, then he will willingly get rid of the girls. He just wouldn't be interested in them in anything other than friends. You know when you have that kind of relationship and when you don't. If you don't, you will never know if he "took care of them all".
2007-02-28 16:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you "take care of it" (whatever THAT means) then you look like the psycho jealous gf, do you want to look like that? What is he doing to take care of it anyway? And why do SO many girls like him? Perhaps he is giving off a vibe that is attracting these girls. I don't think it's all their fault. He sounds like a player...
2007-02-28 16:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
::sigh:: Oh highschool drama. You must be gorgeous if he's chosen you over all those other girls he could have, don't take that one for granted. If you have a low self esteem, you're an idiot.
Now on to answering the Q.
Unless you're confronted by the girls, don't do anything. He seems trustworthy enough, if he's getting his friends to get them off his back, then maybe you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
Trust him as far as you can.
2007-02-28 16:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The very best thing is you guys have to handle it together. Talk to each other and then handle it. Well..your age is too young to write anything more. I would suggest you remember one thing
"What you have in your destiny or fate is only yours" no matter what you do to get that is not yours you wont but that doesnt mean u have to idle. You got to learn to put your share of hardwork in whatever you do.
All the best
2007-02-28 16:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No--it's his job to take care of it and straighten them out. But don't expect him to do so in a cruel manner. You can't take care of problems like this yourself, or you'll form the habits of never holding the other person responsible. It's just not your place.
2007-02-28 16:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i say let him take care of it and if he really wants to be with u he will get the other 14 girls off of him so he can be urs and urs only.
2007-02-28 16:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust. A improtant factor in being in a relationship.
2007-02-28 16:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by AnthonyV0119 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋