What to do with a MIL who manipulates and turns everything around to make herself look good?

Question

I just caught on to what she has been doing. I have blamed and dumped on my M for years. MIL is much more clever than I ever thought but now I see the light. What should I do? She takes care of my kids everyday while me and her son go to work? She is very good to them. But, I don't know how to turn this all around. I was so cruel to my M and have burned that bridge.

Answer 1

You see the in-law as an outlaw. Now is the time to amend with Mom. The two of you can deal with the real threat.