okay i know this girl she is a 21 year old single mom i kinda like her, i'm 21 and i just got out of a relationship, i know i can support them but i don't know if i should turn this in to something serrious or juststay friends please help
2007-02-28 08:04:12 · 5 answers · asked by fuller_0_2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First: Are you ready to support yourself, her and her child? This is a huge step, for anyone! I would first be friends with this girl. If it turns into something that you want to make permanent, then pursue it. I would not advise coming into the child's life and then leaving. It is not healthy for a child to have an unstable household. Don't support them because you can, support them because you want to and you want to be a part of her and her child's life. Until you get married, she will always put that child before you and you have to be able to accept and understand that. Please be sure that you are ready for this kind of committment.
2007-02-28 08:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her then remain friends with her and help her out from time to time as a friend at first.As you get to know each other more then decide where you want the relationship to go.It's hard taking care of a child when your a single parent,so anyway that you could help her I'm sure she will appreciate.The reason I said to stay friends at first,is because you just got out of a relationship,and you don't want to jump into another so soon.You want to make sure that you are completely over the other person before you start having feelings for another.And you don't want to hurt her if she starts having feelings for you.So take it slow and see where it goes.Good luck
2007-02-28 16:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really answered your own question. You do not do anything until you feel as though you want something more serious. No one can tell you whether you should remain just friends or take it to another level. You answered your own question when you said that you do not know and what do you do when you do not know, you take your time to find out, there is no rush to anything of a serious nature because you want to be sure.
2007-02-28 16:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you're gonna have to work out for yourself. Are you ready to become part of an instant family if it would work out? If not, just stay friends. I don't know how old her child is, but it is not fair to a kid to get into a relationship with you and then decide to back out. If their dad is not in their lives, it is especially hard on them.
2007-02-28 16:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just friends. I beg you.
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