A friend of mine doesn't have a book for his biology class & a girl in his class who he saids he isn't attracted to because she's chubby and not his type has offered to help him get his assignments. He also misses class alot because of his work schedule sometimes. However, he knows that this girl has a crush on him & he knows that he isn't interested. I told him that it isn't right for him to lead her on, he said that he has to do what he has to do to pass the class. I said, but if you're not interested in her that way why won't you just tell her. He said because he doesn't want to mess up his hook up. She's always calling & trying to get him to take her out & all he saids is that he's cordial. I said you must be attracted to her in some kind of way. He said yeah, "I'm attracted to the fact that she has a book & I don't." So what would you do in this situation? Shouldn't he tell her he's not interested in her like that?
2007-02-28 08:02:52 · 7 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is really mean of him and that he should tell the girl himself. cuz other wise he is kind of using her and she has a right to know that he doesnt think of her in that way
2007-02-28 08:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Linda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should lead her on and crush her, like millions of women do to men on a daily basis. Soon she'll learn what Oprah, the View and all feminists say about men is true. She then can become a bitter fat woman who'll try becoming a lesbian only to find out women are ten times more treacherous than any man.
In the mean time he can get what he wants from her and at least get a good grade.
Truthfully, do you think this scenario happens more to women or men? Come on!
2007-02-28 16:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess....you like this guy. If you do, I hope you change your mind. He has serious character flaws. And whether he's in the 'friend category' or someone you're interested in romantically, if you think he will use this girl to serve his own purposes and not do the same to you--you're just kidding yourself. Be glad that he's exposed his true self, and do what you know is in your own best interest. Don't allow him to make sport of you too. I'd go a step further and tell the fat chick what he's doing. A few wrong assignments from her would serve him right. LOl
2007-02-28 16:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should not be trying to tell your friend how he should live his life. It is not your place to determine his standards of conduct.
But, I would question the fact that if this conduct bothers you, maybe you need to examine what kind of person your friend is. It sounds to me like he is a user, and lazy to boot.
2007-02-28 16:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by romeoshannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him tell her. What should you do is the real question. You should let her know that she is wasting her time and if she still wants to help than at least she knows the score.
2007-02-28 16:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It NONE of your business. This has nothing to do with you - so why in the hell do you care. And by the way - she should already know that he's not interested. If she cont's to be blind then thats her problem.
2007-02-28 16:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by kajungirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just using her and the fact that she has a book.Many guys do this.Your friend needs to grow up.He should tell the girl that he don't have feelings for her and tell her that he wants to be just friends!
2007-02-28 16:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋