Hi, my boyfriend has just ahd his hair cut and i hate it! I know it should be something i should get used to but i just cant...
its a mohawk with the strip dyed bright blonde and the sides shaved really close. I REALLY don't like how it looks on him, and have told him that im not a fan, but as long as he likes it its up to him, however i jus don't find him as attractive and dont know how long he's going to keep it like this, i kinda liked it befor he dyed the strip blonde...help, i know this makes me sound really fickle and it shocked me by how bothered i was...any tips of what i can do?
2007-02-28 08:02:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not so much that i thinkits changed his personality he's still a sweetie and i dont wanna break up over it...i think it might be its a similar hair style to my brothers...and thats jus too disturbing for words....
2007-02-28 08:11:47 · update #1
It's hard to get past the physical some times, but if you love him, he's hair shouldn't matter. Try not to think about the hair, it is something that will change over time. Think about the kind of person he is. That's what you matter the most.
2007-02-28 08:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is JUST hair after all, it will grow back. You have a right to voice your opinion and you did. Lay off of his hair if you really do like him then the hair should have nothing to do with your realtionship.
It is a really shallow thing to dwell on. If you were in an accident and lost an arm, even though you look different on the outside, you really are the same on the inside!
Don't dwell on it.
2007-02-28 16:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really really really. Find a new guy.
He's not the whole package for you anymore. Are you really going to let yourself settle? You're going to have to tell him how you really feel, or sneak some guy with good looks in on the side if you want to keep him.
2007-02-28 16:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it but don't be like its going to be over if you don't change it give him the choice to whether he keeps it and just let him know what you think maybe he will agree and change it back
P.S. Good Luck
2007-02-28 16:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by matthew Overton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A haircut isn't going to change his personality...just his looks a little.
Wait for it to grow back, & tell him what you think makes him irresistable...
2007-02-28 16:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, end the relationship NOW. if you dont like him enough as a person to not care about how he looks on the outside then its not right. never be with someone just because u like the way they look.
2007-02-28 16:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by Italiana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say "Lovely Mohawk." in a sarcastic voice. Then say if he gets another mohawk, you will too.
2007-02-28 16:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by ~ Lillie ~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just get used to it youll be alright if you really like him then it wont bother you but i think youll be alright
2007-02-28 16:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by lem. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boyfriend, sounds like he just wanted to make you mad,he should have at least talked it over with you before he did that
2007-02-28 16:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him wear a cap or hat while ur together
2007-02-28 16:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Fenix Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋