2007-02-28 07:39:11 · 6 answers · asked by stacy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him and trust him, why are you thinking that way? If he is telling you that he loves you, just believe it and don't bring his past relationships into yours. (If you have a reason for thinking this because he still has contact with her or something, then you need to discuss this with him and let him know how you feel.)
2007-02-28 07:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your boyfriend says that he loves you does his expressions tell you that loves you and does he act like he loves you? If you think that he has feelings for his ex then why don't you try asking him, if you don't it will bug you until you do. Maybe once you have asked him why maybe tell him that you are under the impression that he might have feelings for his ex and want to know if it is true. Hopefully he won't get too defensive and start questioning you why are you asking him all this, at least he can't say that you weren't curious about what you thought. If he does indeed have feelings for his ex then find out why and what does he plan to do let the feels go and stay with you or leave you and go back to his ex. It does not sound simple but atleast the one thing you want to seek is the truth so that you and him can figure out what you want to do next.
2007-02-28 15:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that? Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? How long have they been broken up or divorced or whatever?
If he really does have a thing for her and is living in the past with her in his mind even after a long time, then even though you love him, it is best for you to move on. I have read that for every year someone was together it takes 3 months for them to get over it. May or may not be true, but something to think about.
I wasted almost 2 years with a man who in the end left me to go back to his ex-wife! This after assuring me repeatedly that he was over her. Apparently not!
Does he talk about her all the time? Does he compare you to her a lot? Does he stay in touch with her much more than he needs to? If so, beware...he could be rebounding with you.
On the other hand, if the break up/divorce/whatever is fairly recent then he is probably just working through some stuff and if you are supportive you can help him through this. Just stay aware and if your gut tells you he is rebounding with you, then move on. Unless of course you are ok with being a rebound.
Try talking to him about it first and see what happens.
Good luck to you and I hope it works out alright...
2007-02-28 15:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by ratgrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never never let somthing as dumb as the past effect your future..listne if you have somting good going make sure it doesnt come to an end for as long as you can..if he does then he does if not then he doesnt but knowing isnt going to change how he feels just enjoy your time.
2007-02-28 15:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just learn to trust him otherwise you'll just push him into cheating
2007-02-28 15:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by foreveraaliayh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this hapend to me now listen closly keep him out of contact with her make shure they never see eachother again or else!
2007-02-28 15:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by wow432 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋