I am only 23 years old. I live with my boyfriend for 2yrs… and I caught him cheating on me… and he caught me talking to other guys all this was a couple of weeks ago… well now I don’t know what we are… we still live together and act as if we are going out… but it is a bit confusing…
Well back to my question even when everything was fine between us I had to talk to guys over the phone or online I would always give my number away when guys would ask me for it never actually follow trough on going out with any of them because I was (or Am) in love with him but cant help it I have to have a phone buddy in the side Noo no phone sex just the sweet talk I care about you your so great deal.
He still loves me and I don’t know what to do I want to be with him and I don’t know how to trust him or me!
2007-02-28 07:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to sit down and evaluate your relationship with this guys. if you are always talking to other guyz probably theres something missing from your relationship thats making you do such things and gurl he cheated on you are you willing to forgive him and move on from it. probably you guyz need a break. swim a little and see whats out there
2007-02-28 07:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust, there is not a good relationship. You both need to talk and figure out if you want to stay together and if so, you need to quit with the other men and he needs to quit with the other women. If not, you may as well break it off because it will happen at some point.
2007-02-28 07:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as you, except my current relationship isn't going anywhere. But it is possible to turn it all around. You guys have to build up trust. Without trust you have nothing. Trust and communication are the main things to keep a relationship like a rock. You need one or the other to make it strong. And it sounds to me that the trust is slowly fading, and if you want it to work, you should work that out.
2007-02-28 07:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mizz Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have cheated on each other in one way or another. This tells me that you don't love each other. You may like each other but you don't love each other enough to have a trusting relationship. You're only 23 and you have a lot of living and loving to do. It's alright to start over and move on.
2007-02-28 07:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by southernbelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you and your boyfriend are seeking satisfication with other people, you either have to talk and figure out what it is you are both looking for and do it, or you just need to go your seperate ways. Aparently he doesnt compliment you enough and he is seeking more physical intimacy. You should talk, or things will get worse. Plus if you are seeking out guys on line and giving your number to them, maybe you can get off the computer and spend more time with him, and him with you.
2007-02-28 07:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really love your BF or you wouldn't EVER get out your number to other guys to make you feel more needed or whatever! That is just childish. If you are with someone then you are with just that person. Both of you don't seem to understand that. Seems to me you both should go your separate ways and find someone whom you truly will love and respect!
2007-02-28 07:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how a person can tolerate his/her parner on cheating. If he loves you, why would he cheat on you? If you truly loves him, why would you even think about cheating on him. This relationship is over. Move on with you life, forget the past. Good luck ;)
2007-02-28 07:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by C L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you truly know the answer to this question and can answer it. Can you see yourself with him the rest of your life? If so, good. If not, you may want to make a change.
2007-02-28 07:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to breakup start skimming the apartment adds and get out while you can.
2007-02-28 07:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by over the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. Once a man cheats on you he knows he can and will always cheat on you.
2007-02-28 07:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by toneslilsweettease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋