I'm really confused on this whole subject.
There's this guy I like. We're really good friends. We talk a lot.
We have the same interests. It feels to me like our thoughts are on the same wavelength. I love being around him. he makes me happy. I think I'd feel kind of dissapointed it my first kiss was with anyone else. Is he my soulmate?
2007-02-28 07:34:02 · 17 answers · asked by garden fairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I'm asking cause I've never expeirenced this before. I've never known love this strong so it can be confusing if you have nothing to go on
2007-02-28 07:51:49 · update #1
I have no experience to go on. This is my first crush. So I don't really know what a soul mate is.
2007-02-28 07:52:39 · update #2
I have no experience to go on. This is my first crush. So I don't really know what a soul mate is.
2007-02-28 07:54:16 · update #3
Soul mates cannot be found-you find out by getting to know someone for who they are.
Soul mate connections I think transcends everything logical-if you are really connected with someone-you know how they think and feel-because you think and feel the same way. It is pretty much meeting a version of yourself in the someone else.
I say wait and see what happens when you go through a crisis. If he hangs around and says things that cause you to smile-then it's a possibility he is yours....Good luck, baby girl.
2007-02-28 07:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be but it's more than that. You'll just know without question. It will happen when you don't expect it. Maybe he's just "a really good friend" and that's all. How does he feel about you? Have you discussed that? Talk to him and see what he is feeling. And sometimes even if nothing happens right now between the 2 of you, and he is your soulmate, it may not be your time to be together. I believe there are things you have to go through, and lessons to learn before you can actually "be ready" for your soulmate. Sounds crazy but it's so true. I have this guy I been friends with for 9 years, we were instantly attracted to one another, but I was with someone else. Now we are together and it's nice. It took us 9 years to get it together but I can say that the things I have gone through in that time have made me appreciate the friendship we have always had, and be greatful for what we are building now together.
2007-02-28 15:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, your soul mate is something you can feel within your heart and soul. I believe in soul mates. If you cant think about no one else but him, or if he leaves and 10 minutes later he's on your mind like crazy, you cant stand being away from that person no matter where they are. It all depends
2007-02-28 15:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mizz Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do believe in soul mates. A soul mate is something that you find eventually. He may be it - or it might be someone else. Do not wonder if he is your soul mate or not. And if anything is off - if you find yourself thinking, well that's not that bad - then odds are, he's probably not it. There isn't anything wrong with waiting if he isn't either.
2007-02-28 15:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Loup Garou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not so sure about soul mates but it sounds like you guys have a really amazing connection and you should just enjoy that instead of worrying and having to give it a name. if the time comes when you feel like kissing him is right go for it.
2007-02-28 15:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by kerfuffle_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be your soulmakte dear, definitely (regardless of whether he's the first to kiss you or not).
If you two feel you can talk with each other for hours and u have this special bond of closeness and understanding each other, feeling each other than you two are soulmates.
Very often a soulmate is one's greatest love.
2007-02-28 15:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by senorita spanish rose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, You know love can be so much fun & exciting that we think we've found Mr. Wonderful , but only time will really tell if he's the one. Does he put you first? Is he sensitive to your needs? I've seen people who were so much in love in the beginning, get married & then see it all go to crap. Real love isn't about getting but in giving..if he does that for you then he could be the one ..good luck..bye
2007-02-28 15:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe in soul mates they come into your life when you least expect it and usually some one you wouldnt expect .My soul mate is my boyfriend he knows be better then anyone includeing my mum and hes also my best friend .being soul mates is like being the same person ..This guy could be your soul mate ..does he know how you feel???? i suggest if he doesnt then you let him know becaus eif you dont let him know and he is your soul mate then some other gurl might get him before you good luck.
2007-02-28 15:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by lilshortyjess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I believe in soul mates
they are the people you meet who complete you as a person
I don't think there is a standard way to find them I was 48 and my soul mate was 47 before we found each other
only you can know if he is your soul mate...and you will know when it happens
in my opinion he is not your soul mate or you would not have to be asking ... you would know
sorry
be cool...
2007-02-28 15:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it very interesting when people ask this question becouse i to have asked the vary same one..love is not somting the word love actually explains its somthing intense allmost unbarable you huge them and kiss them and tell them every secret you can but you allways feel that there is somthing more to them and there will allways be..listne somthing that no person on this whole world no doctor or brother sister or cusin can tell you and its this if that person is the one for you..to be honest its not really a question or shouldent be becouse you will know
2007-02-28 15:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋