Nagging Aunts?

Question

Recently, I have been working at school and my aunts ( two grown women over 40) living with me in my grandmothers house. I konw that I don't have much to pay the bills but they called me selfish in more ways than one because I didn't share my popcorn with them and crystal light and did not leave it down for them to make some even though I made some and put it in the fridge. I cook, clean the bathrooms, wash clothes,dust the house and is called lazy. Then I got back with my ex boyfrined and they give me more grief like I have kids to take care of( 1 of my aunts are rasing my 2 younger sisters) and they can't do a good job with that. Any thing I can do to stop the madness before I knock them out?

unfortunately , she is not there. She is in rehab and when she was there I was the main one helping her and feeding her , even when I was in school. But even then she was quick to dog me out even though I put up with all her problems( like making sure things were within arms reach for her to get cereal, fix a hot meal , if she wants it, helps her clen herself,etc)

Answer 1

Get yourself a good job, save your money and move out.They are family and nothing you do will ever be good enough. Good luck

Answer 2

It sounds like your aunts are selfish if they can't go fix their own snack at age 40. And if you are really doing that much housework and they are complaining about it - they are using you like a slave. Maybe you don't have a lot financially to contribute, but you are certainly doing your part with the housework. I think they are unfairly hard on you. Since this is your grandma's house, is grandma there to stand by you and tell them to stop? If not, I would consider getting a new place to live.

Answer 3

It seems like they're jealous of your youth.

Answer 4

talk them