Is this ok in a relationship?

Question

I have a girl that goes out to eat with old friends (guys) and talks to them on the phone. I completely trust her and feel strongly that she doesnt like them but she wants to maintain friendships with these guys. She invites me along when im available. She goes out with old friends that are girls too but, sometimes its just alone with a guy friend. Im confused because people keep telling me its wrong for her to do this, is it?

Answer 1

I don't think it's wrong at all. If you trust her and she's even inviting you along when you are available, she's just friends with these guys. Sometimes we can have a great guy friend and that is all it is. Guys can be great to talk to about somethings we can't go to girlfriends with. As long as you are fine with it and trust her, don't worry about other people's opinions.

Answer 2

I understand if you feel uncomfortable tell her not in an upset kind of way but just tell what you just said u trust her and knows she would never cheat but you just don't feel comfortable with the situation

Answer 3

well its excellent that u trust ur girl...i admire u cuz my bf is a jealous mess...i cant even look at another guy without him questioning me.. if she invites you to go hang out with her as well than it means she doesnt mean bad..its not a bad thing at all..if she kept it from u and then u found out some other way..then u should be worried but if she's open to u and tells u wat shes doing..dont worry she's just trying to have a good time..good luck!!

Answer 4

I am a woman who happens to have lots of male friends. always have. You guys make great friends! I also have never once had romantic thoughts about my friends or cheated on my boyfriend with one. If you are truly uncomfortable ask her if you could join them at lunch or whatever to see for yourself.