we're trying to save for our vacations, is there a way i can learn how to give him good massages so he won't have to pay a therapist?
2007-02-28 07:21:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You come here and I'll show you some ancient secrets taught to me by Asian massage girl. I promise the lessons will only take you a couple of weeks to learn and when you get back to your man he'll will be eternally grateful to you....
2007-02-28 07:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent a Kama Sutra lovemaking tape and learn how to give your man sensual massages. Ask him to plainly tell you how you can make him feel good. If he tells you in plain detail, I am quite sure you can turn it around and become his one and only masseuse.
My man would never pay anyone to do it the way I do it.
I start by telling him to close his eyes and relax. I put on relaxing music. Then I have him breath in and out as I slowly touch his hairline with my index and middle fingers on both my hands. i do this slowly, gradually starting to knead around his neck and his temples. I do this on his nose too to relieve sinus pressure. then I take his neck as though I would strangle him (I'm NOT strangling him) and I start to work those muscle with all of my hands and all of my might. Women can do this if with lotion or oil. I knead it and knead it until he starts showing signs of relaxation to the point where he sleeps. I use this one motion that is like a figure eight-I work his upper and lower back in a shiatsu motion, then I keep doing this wherever eh says to go-left right up down.
2007-02-28 15:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him pay a therapist,but, in the mean time take a class. Massage can be damaging if not done right.
2007-02-28 15:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take some classes on massage or even rent videos on the art of massage and the art of sensual massage. Unfortunatly it could be he is going to one of the more questionable massage parlors where they get much more than a massage, he could be cheating on you. I certainly hope he isn't but it is a possibility.
2007-02-28 15:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him teach you how to do it, by giving you a massage. And sometimes the massage parlors offer more than massages, so it could be just an excuse. Understand?!
2007-02-28 15:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have HIM teach you. Set a relaxing atmosphere and lower the lights. Have him tell you where he needs the attention and concentrate on those areas. He needs to tell you harder or softer and so forth. Trying using warm massage oils too.
2007-02-28 15:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing if he don't tell you how he likes it then there's something wrong apparently he don't want you to know for some reason but it never hurts to ask and then see where it goes form there or you could just start to go out and get one yourself from a hottie =)
2007-02-28 15:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by ashley m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a couple of massage classes
2007-02-28 15:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by sheets0681 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of baby oil when you give him a message
2007-02-28 15:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by G-man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have a way of asking questions, go for one or two yourself, like taking a class....or rent a video
2007-02-28 15:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Waagosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋