I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her
2007-02-28 07:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is VERY hard to be "just a friend" with a girl you're in love with. Her having a new guy will make it that much more painful. She will be calling you after her date with him or asking you what to wear for a date with him, etc. That is not fun at all. I'd say if you can handle that kind of pain and you still have hopes of getting back together with her, you can try it as long as she's not in love with the other guy. But as soon as she falls in love with him, it would be best for you to probably let your relationship with her to go althogether, no love, no friends, say goodbye forever, because things will get very messy if she's in love with someone else.
2007-02-28 07:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Slacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't always enough. Once trust is broken it is hard to repair. At that young age you both may grow in different directions as you mature and grow up. No, you aren't grown up yet. Most don't really finish maturing until 30. It's true! Im' old and I have seen alot. Why did she wait until she was with another to email you? Think about it.
2007-02-28 15:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by peach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I could suggest is to move on. Obviously she doesnt really love you because she has already manage to move on. And you should do the same. The only reason she might be telling you that she still loves is so that you wont move with your life and be happy. Even though she doesnt love you she doesnt want you too. Life does go on and dont just let it pass you by.
2007-02-28 15:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell her this "it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house" Im sorry i did this but i had my reasons, if you cant forgive me then i can understand, but i find it hard to live with out you and i love you forever and for always. your husband
2007-02-28 15:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is only sixteen it won't work out as he may be just too immature to handle a real relationship. i would talk to her and tell her how u feel, and that u love her and want her back, and besides that the decision will have to be hers to make. just be honest, and forthright with her. but her new relationship won't last, too much of an age difference. he is still a teenager.
2007-02-28 15:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋