hi im 15 and im going out with this girl that ive been friends with for ages.Im confused because when we r on our own she acts normal but since we started goin out 3 months ago ,she pretends i dont even exist when our other friens r there.i know u probobly think shes using me but shes a virgen and isnt ready.so what does it all mean.Please help me to under stand a 16 year old girls mind
2007-02-28 07:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay well, i'm 23 but i can understand how i felt when i was 16....she probably just doesn't really know how to show her feelings when others are around. Just like a guy would act a little cold when his boys are around...he won't be talking all cute and romantic to me infront of his friends, but yet he won't make me feel unconfortable or as if i didn't matter. This is very important, if you feel unconfortable by her acting like you don't exist well then tell her. Tell her you know she may not be as open with her feelings infront of others but that you're not invisible and you dont want to be treated as though you are. This isn't going to hurt her feelings but it will make her realize that what she's been doing is wrong and she will be aware of her actions for next time. Good luck, sorry i wrote sooo much.
2007-02-28 07:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Caro*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both r too young to hav a relationship.even if u think there is some relationship its all infatuation.u said u hav been frnds since ages.how can it be possible when u r just 15?? Take my word.u r too young & u cant understand her as she too is just 16 (this is the age when ppl change).Forget her & be happy.When u come to certain age & maturity find urself a good girl.
2007-02-28 15:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by K P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody understands a 16 year old female. She's still learning herself and what a relationship is. Have you tried talking with her? Express to her what you are feeling.
2007-02-28 15:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that she knows that u love her and she just wants to hang out wit her friends sometimes, or maybe she don't like u as much as u thing. If I were u I would bring it up and ask her why. She might not eve know it.
2007-02-28 15:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea luvs u...maybe...lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships at that age never get serious.life is big wait some time surly she may understand ur mind
2007-02-28 15:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by sreesha_s2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships at that age never get serious. Hold off until college, and you get a better sense of what you're doing.
2007-02-28 15:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Saturday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone else who is your mutual friend likes you and she doesn't want to hurt their feelings. Maybe she doesn't want anyone to know you guys are more than friends. What is your reputation like? Is she ashamed to say she's your girlfriend
2007-02-28 15:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing. You r not telling the truth.
2007-02-28 16:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by ramachandra_k2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c ur younger?
2007-02-28 15:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by ipfreely91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋