when i was 21 i adopted out my son because i was in an abusive relationship his life was in danger because of the man i was with at the time i was too scared to leave because he said he would kill me and my family including my son i was so scared for his life think at that time adoption saved him. the man i was with made me take the blame for harming my child when everyone knew it was him . i despretly want to find him as i have 4 other kids now and am well away from that man. i have a social worker helping me at the moment but its just taking so long. i dont sleep because i cant stop thinking about my little boy. im 41 now and would appreciate any advice you could give. god bless
2007-02-28 07:00:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Try this site
http://zabasearch.com/ and try writing a letter first explaining why you gave him up.
2007-03-07 18:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such a thing as the Adoption Registry. You could register and if the other party is registered as well, they will relay the information to each party and you will be able to get in touch that way.
I know this is true because one of my counselors (in Az.) did this and met her son that she put up for adoption in New York 30+ years ago. They actually finally met on February 16, 2007 for the first time ever.
2007-02-28 15:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by DREAMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The salvation army are very good with searching for people, also try social services, adoption team. Other than that try putting an advert in the local paper in the area u believe he is in.
2007-03-05 13:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by squawinpants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously....How many shows have I watched about this....Call a talk show....It seems like they help tons of people....I know it was really hard to do that and it took courage....Your adopted child will definitely thank you for that....wow...You are awesome.....I would definately try talking to the adoption agency that you used....Ask them to contact the parents that took your child in and see if they will agree to let you meet him.......I would never turn that down if I was them...Good Luck..God Bless
2007-03-08 05:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Hanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the social worker or get in toutch with The Salvation Army,good luck.
2007-03-05 06:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id go to the adoption agency or put an ad in your local paper or try it on the internet with all your details.good luck and i hope you find him soon.you never know he could be looking for you too.
2007-02-28 15:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see ppl looking for biological parents and children quite often on sites like classmates.com and reunion.com...I dont know how sucessful they have been but it's a good place to start...good luck and I hope you find what you need....
2007-02-28 15:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the agency you used for the adoption...
Hope that helps!
2007-02-28 15:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can wwrite to where he was left for adotion and you can write the social security office and all those places the cour thouse that handled it surely you can find him and then cousinconnect.com can help i found 1/2 sister that way.
2007-03-06 22:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are hes looking for you get your details on as many sites you can friends reunited/genes united register them with salvation army any where you think he might look for you
good luck
2007-02-28 15:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋