and no work
2007-02-28 06:55:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, I'm assuming from the way you asked the question, that you've already had sex before. It's perfectly alright to enjoy those paid massages and happy endings just as much as the sex. I've heard countless women say how much they prefer a massage or chocolate more than sex.
The truth is, it's not about the actual act of sex. It's about the person you're having sex with. No doubt, you probably haven't met the right person yet.
As far as the moral aspects of it all, these paid massages are not twisted. There are many men that pay twice, sometimes five times as much wining and dining a woman that "possibly" might have sex with them. These same women think that paying someone for definite pleasure is sickening.
Until the hypocrisy is all sorted out, do what best suits you and seek to develop more meaningful relationships with the people around you.
2007-02-28 07:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever sets you in the mood. Massages are good to feel out the erogenous zones, that would turn you on. Fantasy can help too, especially if you are recieving massages from 'hot' women.
Check this out:
http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Sexual-Body-Feelings-and-Erogenous-Zones-of-Men&id=107432
2007-02-28 15:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude...you pay for that. u must be REALLY ugly or a huge jerk if you cannot get a real gf. its pretty pathetic to have to pay. i know there its a job and someones gotta do it, but its a nasty job too. be sure to get checked for std''s if you are paying for ANY type of gratification!!!!!
2007-02-28 15:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird to enjoy it . its about thier pleasing you and you laying back and enjoying it and not having to do any of the work for a change . so lay back and enjoy it
2007-02-28 15:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_ol_hippie_radical 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call it twisted,narcissistic... I means you can not get a happy ending unless you pay for it .
2007-02-28 15:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever gets your rocks off.
2007-02-28 14:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess not
2007-02-28 15:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by ipfreely91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋