Everyone, What according to you - are the rules AFTER THE BREAK UP? What are the after break up rules? if any

Question

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What are the rules, once uve broken up??

what are the rules of the after break up?

Answer 1

I have only two rules:

1) Your ex is an ex for a reason. Keep them that way. (IOn other words, never go back.)

2) Give the girl everything - I dont want to remember that c**t.

Answer 2

The rules are basically to be polite, give back anything which belongs to them that was at your home, in your car, or otherwise in your possesion, and to not seak revenge even if the person was awful to you.

The basic rule is to be dignified and not resort to juvinile behaviors. Don't key their car, don't rip up or throw away their belingings, don't call them names or egage in charactor assassination, don't lie about them, don't keep an engagement ring, but you can keep all rings if you were married and are getting a divorce. Don't belittle the person to any children you share or where the children can overhear or receive word from others of what you said, don't use the children to minipulate or harm the person, and whatever you do don't date a freind/relatives ex even if you get permission until at leat three years has past. Dating a friend or relatives ex, even if you receive permission will ruin that relationship.

That is about it, good luck and I wish you much happiness in your next relationship.

Answer 3

What rules? Basically, you where you have to make choices involving things relating to the break-up, you try to choose to act with class and grace so people can see that you're a quality person. What other rules can there possibly be?

Answer 4

there are no rules... the dynamics of any relationship is governed by both you and your partner and if subsequently there is a breakup, it's up to you how you want to handle it right...as long as you are not harrassing or some other extreme (hopefully not) your ex or visa versa, then there's no need to call the police, right? and if you decide to toss in bed now and then, that's okay, too. it's basically a process short or long and sometimes in between... oh, if your hetero, be sure to use a condom... it get's more chaotic if there is a unborn child to contend with.

Answer 5

hmm... my rules are 1.) they are an ex... they are to be left alone by me 2.) they are off limits for 1 year by any of my friends 3.) break ups should be done in a private place but in person face 2 face .... good luck hope this helped.

Answer 6

what do you mean? like in terms of dating right after? on that subject, personally I don't like to jump into another relationship when I might still have hang ups over the previous one, not fair to the new person.

in terms of staying friends or whatever...unless it was a mutual, mature break up where you both realized that you just weren't right for each other, or you'd both grown in separate directions, or whatever, I'd stay friends only after I've dealt with whatever issues I still have because even if the break up was friendly, it still hurts.

if the break up was a bad one...OR the relationship in whole was not so good, it's kinda hard to be friends with someone you just get along with when you were with them.

Answer 7

There are no rules in regards to the breakup, how ever gifts are gifts, but personal belonging must be returned.

Answer 8

if they bought you anything return it gift or not. if you ehchanged keys or anythign return them too. also if you see them out with someone else you can't say sh*t about it unless of course you suspected the other person to be cheating. most of all they are your ex for a reason remember that reason before drunk dialing for a booty call.

Answer 9

Anything that was given as a gift can be kept, return everything else. Don't go back, you broke up for a reason.

Answer 10

Never look back...unless of course your going in for "post break-up" sex as a means to an end.

You can do it!!!