Did I win her heart? or should I move on?

Question

Me and my crush worked together for almost 2 years and we became good friends. During the last few months we have hunged out a lot. She always instant message me first whenever i sign on, she calls or text me very often. We talk to one another everyday. She said that im very funny. She gets very upset if we dont hang out. On valentines day when we had plans and the weather was bad she was very pissed that i couldnt come see her. Recently I asked her to be my date at my date party that im having she said yes. Does she like me as a boyfriend type person or just a friend? How can i win her heart to make her be my girlfriend because I would like to be that guy she can come to rely on etc. What should I do? What do i need to do? Thank

Answer 1

She communicates with you all the time, thinks you're funny, got upset because you couldn't be together on Valentine's Day, and said YES to being your date at your party. I think you've already won her heart. Just take the next step and start dating her on a regular basis. Don't just tell her you like her, tell you like her because ....(you fill in the blank). Point out the things that she does that bring a smile to your face or things that make her different from all of the other girls. Buy her a card and flowers "just because" - it doesn't have to be a holiday or birthday for you to buy her flowers. Just be yourself and if she likes you as more than a friend(and it sounds very much like she does) you will know soon enough. Good Luck!