i have fallen in love with a girl.i am a teenager. i dont know if she loves me or not. i have never talked with her, since i first met her 10 months ago. iam afraid to say 'i love you' just because she may complain to her parents. i have never talked with her, but she respects me for sure.
what will i do ?
help me plzz.
2007-02-28 05:51:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right now you are in lust. It's that wonderful crazy feeling that makes us think of the person all the time, and you can't get enough of them, and it almost hurts. The best thing for you to do is work up your courage to talk with her. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES TELL HER YOU LOVE HER. If you do, she will NEVER like you. Just start talking to her and don't be obvious about your feelings. Start off by smiling at her. Some days talk to her and some days don't be so interested. It will make her wonder, hmmm, does he like me or not and get her thinking about you. You can see how she reacts to that. It is a process and will take time for you to get to know each other, and see how she reacts to you. The main thing is be cool about it. Just because we feel things doesn't mean we need to express everything we feel at one time. Also, regardless of whether you are a confident person or not, act confident. Girls like confidence and a little mystery in a guy.... guy who looks like he knows how to have fun. OK? Good luck!
2007-02-28 06:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a crush, darlin'. You've never even talked to her, so how do you really love her if you don't truly know what she's like? However, all you have to do is get to know her. You don't have to dive in and profess your love to her. Just try and become her friend and get closer to her that way. Eventually you may be able to become more. You're young, and you have plenty of time to find love. Just be careful. You can get stung!
2007-02-28 13:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica La La Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she respects you if you've never talked with her? Perhaps starting with "I love you" is not the best way to go. If you truly have not talked with her at all, just strike up a conversation. Don't mention "love" or anything, just talk to her. See how she feels about you, if she feels anything.
2007-02-28 13:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by CaptDare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't just say "I love you" out of nowhere. It's creepy and weird and she might would tell her parents. Why don't you try talking to her? You might find out you don't like her anymore once you get to know her. Get your emotions under control and talk to her like she is a normal person. Don't idealize her too much or she will always be unreachable to you.
2007-02-28 13:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your infatuated with her, but as far as loving her u don't yet. don't be so eager, why not start out with conversation, being friendly, inviting her to a movie, to the mall, just start out slow, don't commit to saying u love her till u really get to know her better, and know that she also feels the same way. don't be too forward at first with her.
2007-02-28 13:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun if you loved her......you would have tried talking to her a long time ago. You dont like her you probally just got the hotts for her. Dont worry you will get over it one day.
2007-02-28 13:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone you never even talked to??? You obviously don't know what love is....geez
2007-02-28 13:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Gloria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to grow up, you can not say you love someone that you havent spoke to.
2007-02-28 14:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Annemarie E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um one thing ur not in love
its just a crush
she would be weirded out if you told her you love her
2007-02-28 13:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down an tell her how u feel " jus dont blurt it out" do it at the right time.
2007-02-28 13:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by PJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋