ok i hate men........i love this pakistani guy ( bcuz he has a number of good qualities which r compatible with me) but he wants me to strip for him n i dont want to do it.... n when i refuse he gets mad at me n ignores me... things got so bad tht we stopped talking for couple of months n then he came back saying tht he misses me n dreams abt me.. he says he thinks of me as his wife n wants me to do it all for him... but he doesnt even reply to my sms.. i call him i wake him up in the morning for his office... it kinda does feel like we r married sometimes... but i cant take his requests abt stripping in front of the webcam... its jsut too icky for me...... n whenever i refuse him he gets mad at me...n now tht he doesnt even reply to my sms i am wondering wht the hell am i doing with him.... does he even love me or jsut using me.......
2007-02-28 05:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by ninjagal3000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i know tht he doesnt record it any of our web cam chats... n i can yes see him on his end as he has a webcam on too.. so i know who is exactly at the other end... n i know tht he has a nice job n a decent family.... so i know tht he aint a rapist or a sex offender or even someone who will tape me n sell it to others.. but the whole idea is very icky thts y i dont want to do it... n thankx all for replying
2007-02-28 18:45:59 · update #1
don't be foolish...just using you...if you do this he can save and you could be all over the web.
Married??? wake up...you are here he is there...marriage takes a lot of day to day living together, doing together and working together to make and keep it a marriage.
you said you don't want to do this so don't do it!!! let him pitch all of the immature fits he wants to...how many other girls/women do you think he is doing this with or have you even considered that? I think I would!
be cool...
2007-02-28 07:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-16 05:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately do not strip for him, you never know who is on the other end watching, or recording. It is possible that he is just using you to get you to do this so he can record it and sell it, especially if he is still in Pakistan. If he really cared about you he wouldnt treat you that way or keep asking you to strip.
2007-02-28 06:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he can't respect that you do not want to strip in front of a webcam then he isn't worth being with. You are wise to not want to do that, who knows WHO he has there with him while you would do it. Also depends on your age too, I definitely wouldn't do it if you were under 18.
2007-02-28 05:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG NO. first of all, have you even met him in person???????? if you dont want to do it and he gets mad F**K him. he doesnt deserve you. Find someone that loves you no matter what. someone thats not over the net. How do you know he isnt a murder or something. be careful
2007-02-28 05:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by mg425 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what's the big deal? who cares if you're naked or not - are you ashamed of your body? and don't listen to these idiot females rallying for womanhood and its virtues; and if you 'hate men' why are you even speaking/listening to this guy?
2007-02-28 06:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Haven't you seen American Pie? I would not.
2007-02-28 05:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Run run run run!!!!!!! RUN RUN RUN!!!!!
Run and don't look back, never talk to this idiot again...he is obviously just using you. RUN RUN RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-28 05:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by I MISS YOU! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋