This guy and I have always had a thing for eachother but neither of us has ever been single at the same time, until recently. A year ago his brother and girlfriend of four years broke up for 6 months during that time I had a short fling with his brother. Now his brother and his ex are back together. He says he likes me but he can't date me because his brothers girlfriend is really upset about it. He really respects her and his brother and doesn't want to cause problems so he told me he needs time to think things through. Am I in the wrong? I don't know how I should play the situation, back of and completely end things conversation and all with this guy or if I should keep talking to him hoping things will fall into place? Do I really want to date someone who I might not be able to have a future with? Is it okay to "tip toe" behind the brothers girlfriends back? I am confused so many questions and NO perfect answers!
I feel like there is a natural connection if ther is such a thing
2007-02-28 05:45:26 · 3 answers · asked by lucky_sally4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope,thats like agianst the rule book of dating you cant go out with a brother or anything lke that, it would make you a whore big time
2007-02-28 05:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by blonde_chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not a good idea, don't expect the either brother to respect you, even if the relationship does for some reason, there will always be the fact you were with both brothers, gonna be some major family get togethers, plus say you get married and the other brother gets married what happens down the road when the sister n law finds out you slept with her husband. just remember sneaking behind the girlfriends back may come back to haunt you, what goes around comes around. There are plenty of other men move on.
2007-02-28 05:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it...
if he really liked u, he'd compromise with this brother n his gf...
wat he does, who he is with shouldnt be influenced by wat his bro + gf think!! duh
i say be strong move on find urself a new guy!
n no it isnt good to go behind ne1's back! its mean that way! i mean if that person finds out!
2007-02-28 05:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by YabbaJabba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋