my bf and i been dating for 10 months now, we still havent say you knoe the ''L'' word. he says he like me a lot, he cares about me, he's crazy about me, he wants to marry me, he misses me" but never the "I Love you." i say the same thingg to, but never i love you. its funny almost. all my friends are like, "how come you guys have never said it", i just said we dont care for it, we know we like each other very much, why bother say i love you.
Do you thing we shoud say it soon?, do you think it might ruin the relationship if we dont say it within a year or so?
2007-02-28 05:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter. You can only show true love through actions not words. It's easier to say "I love you" than to actually show it through actions. However, it might be nice to hear every once and a while.
2007-02-28 05:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know how you feel each other I don't think it matters. Sometimes the actions of a person means more than what they say. The words will come out when they are meant to. Don't rush it. Remember once they are said you can never take them back.
2007-02-28 05:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, it's easy to say "I Love You". They are just words.
I think you both have some kind of phobia over saying these words. What is more important are the loving actions. Caring about each others feelings. Communicating, sharing. At some point it needs to be said though.
Here's how I would approach it. Ask him if he loves you. All he has to say is "Yes". Then you can tell him you do to. Simple?
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-28 06:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is only a word. People say it all the time without it meaning anything. If you know the feelings are there, and so does your bf, then that is all that matters. Sometimes your own private phrase can mean more that "I love you". I tell my bf, "I like you a little", and we both know it means "I love you". It is more personal and less embarrassing to say in public or in front of friends.
2007-02-28 05:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by Katt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you use those three words when you really feel your in love...Not just because you've been together for 6 months. I love you, is being used to lightly these days and not when it really matters, so when you and your boyfriend really feel in love, and trust me, you will know what it happens, then use it. Until then use your other loving sayings, they're just as cute and meaningful.
2007-02-28 05:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It easily relies upon at one among those question. some that are tediously annoying or trite, OR hateful rants OR at the same time as each be conscious is misspelled (lyke omg so mi bff and me an my BF were lyke all goin out an idk lyke omg .....) you comprehend, those variety LOL. I pass those. yet i do not thoughts interpreting by an particularly lengthy Q even if it really is sweet or thrilling. lots of the Q's i answer anymore are not to any extent further lengthy notwithstanding. yet short, humorous, and to the point. xD ?
2016-12-05 01:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is - do you love each other? It should come out naturally if you do. Maybe write it in a note and see how he reacts. Make sure you watch his face when he reads it. Then you'll know if its ok to say it. Or just whisper it to him while he's sleeping. awwwww...
2007-02-28 05:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋