I was with my ex for 1 year..This saturday, my ex called me at 1 in da morning. And he told me that he had just came back from a date. Then all of a sudden he said "Damn we had something good, I wonder what happened?" I told him, "only you know, because you broke off the relationship" Afterwards he said he was going to get married and I told him ok then I wont call you anymore. And he said Im just playing, you take everything so serious. He said "If anything its alot easier for you to get me to marry you, I would marry you before I marry another girl"
He also calls me everyday, and I never call or text himBut I still love him..I just dont want him to know, because he would have the upper hand. And hes coming to see me on my b-day, he lives in California, and I stay in Fl....Could he be missing me? Whats he trying to say with all of this?
2007-02-28 05:42:18 · 8 answers · asked by gurl20073 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he's getting off on playing mind games.
if he cant just talk english to you instead of all the hints and symbolism, dont be bothered with his calls anymore. after all if he broke up with you, is now seeing someone else and talking to you on the side, and dont know who he wants to marry but wants to get married, he has some hidden issues or just likes to get off on getting females twisted up on him....sounds like he's got a bad case of narcissim (stuck on himself)...
2007-02-28 05:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by D.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to keep you on the back burner. Remember two things: He broke it off with you and he's being a dick. Get this joker out of your life and find someone who deserves you. He might miss you a little but he's just trying to keep the upper hand. Don't play this game, you'll never win. Just don't call him and don't answer his calls for a while.
2007-02-28 05:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by kungfumasterzod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is regretting his choice to break it off with you. He realized you were the one he wanted to marry and have in his life over any other girl. You should not deny to tell him you love him just becuase you don't want him to have the upper hand. That's selfish and silly. If you still love him TELL HIM. He obviously is missing you if he called you and is telling you all these things.
2007-02-28 05:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to know about men is that we have these big egos and we think every woman should want us, even when we are in another relationship we still want every single woman to want us weather we are happy or not. Its sort of an adventure. We also have way to much pride. My thoughts on the ex, personally are I think he wants his cake and he wants to eat it to. Where was he before 1 in da morning? With her and to be honest with you, I doubt he was think of you when he was with her.
2007-02-28 05:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up. I dont do well at games At All!!! My instinct tells me to play hard to get and he will come crawling back. But like I said I am no good at games so maybe you should do the opposite. Good Luck.
2007-02-28 05:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Surrendered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really does want to be with you but he's freakin out because it's getting serious for him. I would tell him before he comes in town that he's sending mixed messages and ask him what he wants to do
2007-02-28 05:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could either be missing you or is playing a game. Ask him. Be straight forward. It is the only way you will ever know.
2007-02-28 05:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did you break up ??? it sounds like you are his fall back girl
he is lonely and he is pretty sure he can get you back by saying nice things to you and he will stay with you till he finds someone that fits him better hun stay away from him
2007-02-28 05:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋