Yes, I am overweight, some part my fault, some not, but she is alienating me more every time she harps on me about it and it's usually incredibly insensitive, ignorant or cruel words. Help!
2007-02-28 05:33:49 · 6 answers · asked by WendyWeb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Thank you, Amanda and everyone. I think as a medical issue, that is between me and my doctor and no one else. Being middle-aged is harder to lose weight especially if you don't have means like to join a gym, etc. Or even a car to get there.
2007-02-28 05:49:34 · update #1
Tell her in a nice way , to get off your back, it's your body , and tell her to love you just the way you are.
2007-02-28 07:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems cruel for a mother to use such cruel words to get her point across... but im sure she loves you no matter ur weight.... im sure she only cares for ur health... as u mention u dont have a car to get to the gym...so to me u should walk alot.... and drink lots of bottled water not tap.... sometimes mothers dont know how words hurt.. and it doesnt help with self esteem.. just tell her ur trying ur best..... and ask her to go walking with you sometimes to get ur relationship back... best wishes to you.
2007-02-28 05:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your momma will always be your momma. She only does so because she wants to see you make out well in life. Dont be offended. Try and lose the weight. You know its something you have to do.
2007-02-28 05:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is concerned because obesity is connect with heart disease and its not healthy you could also have high colesterol and high blood pressure.
2007-02-28 05:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to buzz off. You are grown now and she needs to let you be. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-28 05:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to shut the fack up
2007-02-28 05:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋