Ladies: Am I a pig?

Question

I often question whether it's best to stick with what I have in my current relationship with my gf. However, I can't seem to get my mind off the number of women I see on my campus because I am always physically attracted to them. Moreover, I catch them looking at me now and then and even smiling (hence the flirting or extreme shyness). I have no problem with my physical attractiveness as a lot of women have found me attractive. But, I can't seem to control my desires and want to desperately 'risk' getting to know more women and even having sexual relationships.

Ladies: Am I a pig for really thinking or feeling this way? Need your help! Do women tend to think the same?

Answer 1

everyone thinks this way....men and women. But you should think about how good your relationship is and why your looking and wanting these other women.

Answer 2

Your only a pig if you don't tell your girlfriend the truth and cheat on her. Tell her you are not ready to settle down. As long as you are not in a committed relationship, you can play the field, just make sure all the women you date are aware of the fact you are seeing others and use protection. Honesty is the best policy.

Answer 3

Women do tend to think the same... having attraction to otheres is normal. But if you actually want to take the next step and be intimate with them, maybe something is missing from your current relationship. Are you in love? Can you see a future? If not , stop wasting your time...go get em!!

Answer 4

I don't think you're a pig. You're quite normal, actually. However, to cheat on your girl is not a good thing to do. If you feel you need more than what you're getting, do the right thing by both of you and end the relationship....this way you are free to play the field.

Answer 5

" If " you have a girl-friend, other women are like poison ivy, you can look, But don't touch, or in other words, you can look at the menu as long as you don't eat. Women look and men look, but if you want your relationship to work Don't touch you are only a " pig " when you start having relationships with other women if you're in a relationship with another, unless you are in a " open " relationship with your partner then it doesn't matter.

Answer 6

I don't think you are a pig for being in college and wanting to experience different things and date around. However, that being said, I think you need to end your current relationship. You are obviously not all that interested in your g/f, or you wouldn't even question whether you should be w/ her or 'risk' getting to know more women. Be fair to her and yourself - end things w/ her and date around.

Answer 7

Well, what you need to do is break up with your girlfriend and get it out of your system to save her the heartbreak. You are going to do it anyway so why feel guilty about it. Just give her it's not you it's me routine (which really would be the truth) and go have fun. Just don't expect her to be waiting around when you want to settle down.

Answer 8

Yes, you do. Then again, most guys feel this way. You might change or not. Releasing sexual tension is good for you though. Just release it on women who just want the relationship to be sexual.

Answer 9

You are not a pig if you are not married as you have a choice till you say "I Do". You must explore and enjoy to make sure you get your fill and when you decide to settle down, you will be a good husband...if you EVER want that..

If you are married, you are still not a pig...you are a cheat and do not deserve to be married to her....

Answer 10

Yes we do!!!!! But it's a natural feeling to be attracted to more than one person. The thing is that you have to be able to control yourself around them. It's not a sin to look but to physically undress with eye (lust after them) it is. Think about your gf and how she feel or she was doing it to.