Why are people so unfair?

Question

I am an Indian guy who is currently living in America. By nature, I am a sweet-type character. Back in India the girls I tried to approach and tell them that I loved them, would laugh and mock at me for being a nice guy. When I came to America, the Black and Hispanic women have treated me the same way. But when I met White women, things were totally different - I found that whites are ore respectful of a person and white women judge a person for who he really is on his inside. I have dated or hung out with white women.

But when my friends found out that I was getting involved with White women, they immediately jumped down my throat and criticized me saying that I am an idiot, hypocrite for "choosing" white women over my own race, blah blah blah...

What the heck is wrong with these people? If a woman of my own race would accept me for my inner character and intelligence, instead of discriminating me for being a "small guy", then I would date them too. Then why are they so judgmental?

Answer 1

They are judgemental because they are closed minded thinking that their culture or their women are better. They are just scared of what they don't know. Who cares what they think?? It's YOUR LIFE AND YOUR HAPPINESS. Anyway, the best looking babies are the mixed ones anyway. Also, your children (if you ever decide to have any with a white woman) would be more open minded about other people and their culture considering you teach them yours as well as the American = they won't become judgemental. Just brush your shoulders off and let it go.

Answer 2

First of all, you're being a little too judgemental yourself. I'm Hispanic and I never judge people by their physical appearance. I believe people have much more to them than that. You've met the wrong kind of people but just because they happen to be Black or Hispanic doesn't make the whole race like that. It's the person, not the race. And for the White women thing, it's your life and your choice. You're friends aren't the ones dating them, it's you, don't let them tell you what to do.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Most American women suck. I'm one of the only people in my family to be born in America and I'm hispanic. You must have been going for the "stereotypical women" I for one, love the sweet guys and don't judge. You just need to find the right women but you seem to be finding all the wrong women. There are better people out there.

Answer 4

You say that you are such a nice guy, but why would you write some bullsh*t like that. So what are you trying to say, white women are better than black, Indian, and Hispanic women? If you came up to me and said some sh*t like you love me, I would laugh at your a*s too, or probably run because you sound crazy! The "white" women that you do date probably pity you for being so dumb and SOFT. Women want a masculine man, not someone who shows weakness upon approaching them. You are the one who sounds judgemental...