Is having an affair wort it ?

Answer 1

Not sure what this has to do with food and entertaining....well, maybe the entertaining part! Your question is one that countless unhappy people have asked themselves for years. Each individual has to ask themselves whether or not their infidelity was "worth" it. By and large, the answer is no. Usually there are a lot of innocent people, including children, that get hurt. Losing your self-respect and knowing that you are responsible for hurting someone for a moment of physical pleasure can be painful and difficult to forgive. Ask yourself some questions about your current relationship:

1. How would I feel if my partner cheated on me?
2. Am I being physically or emotionally abused or both?
3. Where are the "gaps" in my relationship?
4. Have I attempted to salvage my relationship appropriately?
5. Have I told my partner that I am dissatisfied with what we
currently have?
6. Am I prepared to be divorced?
7. What would my pastor/priest/rabbi think about this endeavor?
8. Could I look my children in the eye and tell them that the reason Mommy and Daddy are no longer going to stay together is
because I cheated?

Get in touch with what's really going on here. Are you bored? Hurt? Fallen out of love? The opposite of love is indifference.
Are you being the best partner you could be???

Anyway, good luck in your decision making around this.

Answer 2

If you get a wort while having an affair you will be sorry..I that worth it!lol

Answer 3

It depends on the other person, the other part of the affair.
Every affair is complicated.

They all hurt...but for some, like Richard Pryor
said, they have a hurt that I am willing to take.

Answer 4

No - it makes you the liar and the cheat - it is not worth the damage to your marriage, your self respect nor to the spouse that is going to be betrayed and hurt and never, ever completly trust you again- no matter what you do to make up for it - you do damage that can never be repaired.
If you are lusting after someone, and that is normal, then do it in fanasty land only- get a sex toy, talk to your spouse and get frisky with him instead of thinking about the other guy. That don't work- go to counseling- with the hubby- sex therapy, couples therapy, but don't just blow the commitment cause your horny.

Answer 5

if you are out of love with the person that you are with just leave. There is no point in prolonging it. If you are wanting an affair then you are no longer in love. All you are going to do is hurt so many people, so no its not worth it at all.

Answer 6

If you are considering having an affair then something in your relationship is missing. So yeah have the affair and screw up everything in your relationship instead of just whats missing

Answer 7

NO! NEVER! No affair is worth the pain and suffering it brings to others and the destruction it brings to many lives and families. I was the victim of one (my wife's) and have experienced the misery first hand.

Answer 8

I agree with Mattman 100%.

Thats all a man needs, 2 women driving him nuts. 1 is enough

Answer 9

yeah i'd have to agree with what a few other people are saying, if youre obviously not happy with the person youre currently with so you may as well leave them. if youre in a marriage, its obviously going to be more difficult (especially if you have children together) but you dont want to be charged with adultery or anything or have to go through custody battles, so you may as well make a clean and respectable break. you should try to hurt as few people as possible but keep your happiness in mind as well.

hope all goes well.

Answer 10

Think about this, the person you have an affair with will step out on you. If he/she does not care if you are faithful with your cuurent lover, then they don't care about being faithful themselves.